One thing I've been doing for the last couple of years is not trying to do it all at once. If you really thin them out all at once people will notice. I try to do one or two hairs a day and that way the change is gradual. My eyebrows have gotten thinner over a long period, and I don't think anyone as really noticed. I think it is possible to find a happy medium where it can look good in both male and female mode. I did get a haircut today and asked the woman if she could give me a sort of androgynous look. Somewhere between a male cut and a female cut. (The same principal I used for the eyebrows. A style that could be worn in male or female mode without attracting a great deal of attention.) She raised one eyebrow and looked at me like I was some kind of nut case. I had taken a chance that she might be understanding, but it turned out she wasn't. I was a bit embarassed for asking. It seemed like the longest haircut of my life. Oh well, I guess I won't be going back there any time soon. By the way, I was excited to find some nice jeans today at Marshall's where I was surprised to find some larger than normal sizes. From reading the posts here I understand that a nice pair of woman's jeans can go a long way when going out and not trying to attract a lot of attention. I'm almost ready to give it a try. Anyway, back to the eyebrows. I would love to have beautiful arching feminine eyebrows that got very thin toward the outer edges, but it simply does not work if you want to continue playing both roles. I get so jealous when I see them on a woman, and sometimes when my wife an I are watching a move, I will point out that the actress has beautiful eyebrows. Like Ashley Judd for instance, I think she has gorgeous eyebrows. Sometimes it's hard for me to concentrate on the actual movie. I tell my wife I would love to have eyebrows like that. My wife just shakes her head and says, "What a wacko!". I still feel like she's coming along about the whole thing though. Talk to you soon, and good luck with your eyebrows. (.
Lisabeth
