Quote from: Megan on October 04, 2013, 10:41:51 PM
I want to do something along those lines as well. My family will need to grieve the loss of their son/brother/inlaw and I want to do something to help them with that but I haven't quite figured out what I would do to help them get over the new reality of all of our situations. I know I won't be the only one with issues during this whole process.

I do have something in mind that I want to do. My loved ones and myself write "farewell" letters to my male persona. They would be burned and the ashes spread at a lake were we camped when I was a child.

Quote from: ErinM on October 05, 2013, 06:23:39 AM
I do have something in mind that I want to do. My loved ones and myself write "farewell" letters to my male persona. They would be burned and the ashes spread at a lake were we camped when I was a child.

Won't lie, that's a nice idea.

Quote from: ErinM on October 05, 2013, 06:23:39 AM
I do have something in mind that I want to do. My loved ones and myself write "farewell" letters to my male persona. They would be burned and the ashes spread at a lake were we camped when I was a child.

That's actually a very good idea. My parents have been expressing a wish to go back to las Vegas where we lived when I was a kid. I was thinking along the lines of going down there as their son so they can say goodbye to him, reminiss of old times when we were there last, have fun together and then come back home with their daughter. The letter idea would fit in nicely with what I want to do. It would also be some closure for me as that's the place where I first knew I wasn't who I was but still had no clue what I was.

Shockingly enough I am avoiding reading all that because yes!  That is a really lovely idea and ouch!  How on Earth did you find that tender spot?

Rosie.

Quote from: H, H, H, Honeypot! on October 05, 2013, 04:40:43 PM
Shockingly enough I am avoiding reading all that because yes!  That is a really lovely idea and ouch!  How on Earth did you find that tender spot?

Rosie.

Let the feels in it's good for you