Quote from: <3 on October 12, 2013, 10:25:58 AM
The only thing that bothers me is that on my "out" Facebook that I only have friends from Susan's on, I often get suggestions to add friends that I have on my other Facebook.  As far as I know there is no connection between them and I have no idea where they are getting this information.

After you have been a member on any Internet website long enough you can google whatever name you use and there will be things that you have written posted there. For instance, I wrote this a long time ago on a supposedly secure site and just did a search on Bing and there it was for the world to see, I resent that!..http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-An-Androgyne/1297652

People who use language in their thread titles that make the site look like a trailer park.

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on October 12, 2013, 10:57:20 AM
People who use language in their thread titles that make the site look like a trailer park.

How so?

Trailer park web site?

Crashed my bike in front of a bunch of people and hurt my toe. Other than that, I'm ok, but the chain fell off my bike again. It's so greasy, it's nasty to put it back on.
And men's rooms are so disgusting and hard to find. I hate that I still have to use them

My life made me unhappy today.

Amy

Quote from: Amelia Pond on October 12, 2013, 01:54:14 PMMy life made me unhappy today.
Amy

You poor thing 
Here's a hug to make it better.
*hug*

OK Cupid AnusHoles. After the moron asking for nudes, I get another message from another with a 90℅ enemy rate asking if I want to work as a model.

I changed my orientation to les only and set the privacy option to not to be seen by straight.

I'm starting to hate men. And I want "that" removed from me as soon as possible.

Quote from: Apple Sprout on October 12, 2013, 02:41:38 PM
OK Cupid AnusHoles. After the moron asking for nudes, I get another message from another with a 90℅ enemy rate asking if I want to work as a model.

I changed my orientation to led only and set the privacy option to not to be seen by straight.

I'm starting to hate men. And I want "that" removed from me as soon as possible.

I have heard so many horror stories about dating sites in general...especially from trans people. And funnily enough, the creepy comments almost always do come from men. I've heard about some women but the number is much lower.

Quote from: caleb. on October 12, 2013, 03:21:10 PM
I have heard so many horror stories about dating sites in general...especially from trans people. And funnily enough, the creepy comments almost always do come from men. I've heard about some women but the number is much lower.

yeah, but I fon't know what to do. All of my friends are living their own lives in stable couples, so I've been left behing, alone and friendless. I don't know what to do to find new friends. That's why I started going to the LGBT support group, although I did not find what I was looking for exactly. I want to ask if I can go to the girls group, but I'm afraid of being seen as an enemy with my voice and what I have between my legs).

Quote from: Apple Sprout on October 12, 2013, 04:34:13 PMyeah, but I fon't know what to do. All of my friends are living their own lives in stable couples, so I've been left behing, alone and friendless. I don't know what to do to find new friends. That's why I started going to the LGBT support group, although I did not find what I was looking for exactly. I want to ask if I can go to the girls group, but I'm afraid of being seen as an enemy with my voice and what I have between my legs).

Maybe try announcing at first that you are trans, and that, if you start to not feel safe, for any reason, you have the right to leave.
And also, is there a dedicated trans group with it? My university has several LGBT groups and one trans group, but so far I prefer the latter, even if everyone in there already does a pretty good job presenting themselves as their desired gender, and it's just me who is out of place. But I know I'm safe there, and no one would want to hurt me.
Maybe that's more of the kind of thing you should seek.
And I know we're the internet, but you always have a friend in us, no matter how unreal we seem to you in a moment

Quote from: Willow on October 12, 2013, 04:42:11 PM
And also, is there a dedicated trans group with it?

Nope. There was one once per month a long time ago, but it was removed. They told me that maybe they could start running it again... two girls had been seen it the mixed group the previous week (They did not tell me what kind of girls). There is just that. Les, Mixed (gay), old lesgay, catholic gay..... And the rest of associations in the city are also gay. It's like a bear Paradise.

For the record, I hate body hair.

Quote from: Apple Sprout on October 12, 2013, 05:00:11 PM
Nope. There was one once per month a long time ago, but it was removed. They told me that maybe they could start running it again... two girls had been seen it the mixed group the previous week (They did not tell me what kind of girls). There is just that. Les, Mixed (gay), old lesgay, catholic gay..... And the rest of associations in the city are also gay. It's like a bear Paradise.
For the record, I hate body hair.

That's unfortunate. Hopefully you can find someone really supportive there. It'll be for the best
So do I! I want to get rid of mine so much, but I can only shave, and I'm bad at it. It ends up patchy and bloody; I never get it all and I cut myself. I can't wait for laser or electrolysis.

Quote from: Willow on October 12, 2013, 05:23:37 PM
That's unfortunate. Hopefully you can find someone really supportive there. It'll be for the best
So do I! I want to get rid of mine so much, but I can only shave, and I'm bad at it. It ends up patchy and bloody; I never get it all and I cut myself. I can't wait for laser or electrolysis.

Philips Bodygroom is your friend. I use it once per week on all the body, since it's the only thing that won' give me folliculitis on areas such as genitalia or between genitalia and legs. I only use the razor on legs the day before wearing a dress. I've been doing it for the last four year, and the second version they released of the simple model is a godsend. Pretty much it's always at hand in the bathroom for a quick armpit control.

Quote from: Apple Sprout on October 12, 2013, 05:29:05 PM

Philips Bodygroom is your friend. I use it once per week on all the body, since it's the only thing that won' give me folliculitis on areas such as genitalia or between genitalia and legs. I only use the razor on legs the day before wearing a dress. I've been doing it for the last four year, and the second version they released of the simple model is a godsend. Pretty much it's always at hand in the bathroom for a quick armpit control.

When I first saw that picture I was about to think "here goes the rest of my yearly spending money" but looking it up, the cost is quite reasonable.
Which of the three would you reccomend?
Here's the link to them on the Phillips website:
http://www.usa.philips.com/c/body-groomers/294478/cat/en/

Just get the simplest. They started adding models with hair trimmer and beard electric razor, but you are not going to use even the combs included in the basic package, since you are going to want zero lenght hair. The first one (blue) was 40€ and had a major flaw: The vibration of the shaving razor wore the head and int the end even if you put a new razor it would end flying. The second model (the one I currently have) was 30€ and allows replacing the whole head (it can be fully removed for cleaning instead of just the razor).


And protip: Works better in dry hair, forget about using it in wet sking despite being shower ready. Just have a big bottle of body moisturizer for after you finish, this thing can dry you a lot.

Quote from: Apple Sprout on October 12, 2013, 05:50:02 PM
Just get the simplest. They started adding models with hair trimmer and beard electric razor, but you are not going to use even the combs included in the basic package, since you are going to want zero lenght hair. The first one (blue) was 40€ and had a major flaw: The vibration of the shaving razor wore the head and int the end even if you put a new razor it would end flying. The second model (the one I have know) was 30€ and allows replacing the whole head (it can be fully removed for cleaning instead of just the razor).
And protip: Works better in dry hair, forget about using it in wet sking despite being shower ready. Just have a big bottle of body moisturizer for after you finish, this thing can dry you a lot.

What about the back attachment in the midrange model? Do you think it does anything different for shaving your back?
WalMart has them all $5 off the reccomended price by Phillips. I know where I'm going tomorrow!

Quote from: Willow on October 12, 2013, 05:56:04 PM
What about the back attachment in the midrange model? Do you think it does anything different for shaving your back?
WalMart has them all $5 off the reccomended price by Phillips. I know where I'm going tomorrow!

I'm 5'8" and I never had any problems to reach the back , although I only had a bit of fuzz, never real hair back there. I do all my back (you never know) from over the shoulder and the sides. It all depends on how flexible you are... In fact, sometimes I even handle it almost from the head, for extra careful places such as between the buttocks. Pre laser it took me 25 minutes to do all my body. You may get addicted to it...

Word of advice, I know you are going to aim for the scrotum the first time you use it (who would not?). Most common situation is that you will end bleeding. After that you will always remember that you have to stretch the skin before using it.

Quote from: Apple Sprout on October 12, 2013, 06:34:02 PMI'm 5'8" and I never had any problems to reach the back , although I only had a bit of fuzz, never real hair back there. I do all my back (you never know) from over the shoulder and the sides. It all depends on how flexible you are... In fact, sometimes I even handle it almost from the head, for extra careful places such as between the buttocks. Pre laser it took me 25 minutes to do all my body. You may get addicted to it...
Word of advice, I know you are going to aim for the scrotum the first time you use it (who would not?). Most common situation is that you will end bleeding. After that you will always remember that you have to stretch the skin before using it.

I'm 6'3" and not very flexible...
It seems that WalMart only carries the basic in store, and if you like that, then it's probably what I should get.
I don't doubt the addiction. So, 25 minutes weekly, just about? My body hair grows fast, so my estimate would be slightly shorter time period than the majority.
I'll hold off on legs and arms yet, the only people who thing my leg hair at the moment is abnormal are my little cousins, so they don't really count
But I still don't like how thick it is anywhere. Stupid Italian male genes.

1. Can't find my fingernail filer

2.  My favorite stripper in GTA V isn't actually in front of me to play the mini game with