I hope this isn't seen as trolling...
I've never tried an epilator, but I do want to get one. I have a really high tolerance for pain, I think. Here, watch this video. It's the slam section from a 1996 skateboarding video called Welcome to Hell.
Now the epilator doesn't seem so bad, does it? Also, and here's some practical advice, try doing deep breathing while epilating. Take slow, deep breaths. This helps the body handle pain, and the increased circulation will help your skin recover faster.