Oh my god this is going to be incredibly awkward, but, Orgasms. How do I get them?

Even before I started transitioning, I never went through that "phase". I never really found out how masturbating works, essentially. I also never had any sexual urges of any kind as a teen either, yet my testosterone levels before transition were at the normal male range. Of course I would have wet dreams occasionally so it was working, I just never learned how to use it.

So now I've been reading on other trans* forums and imageboards, and apparently HRT makes orgasms amazing. Now I've been on hormones for roughly nine months now, and since starting I've actually started to notice a sex drive for once! Problem is, I still have no idea how to "do it". I've asked around at these places, and I have not yet received any helpful advice; just responses that joke about it or tell me that I'm full of crap. I literally cannot figure this out. help!

Probably going to have to google that as we aren't exactly an instruction source on ways to fap. Just saying. (And the claims of magic orgasms tend to be hype because of the nature of the orgasm itself: a lot of psychology and a sprinkling of neurochemicals)

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Try maneuvering a vibrator down there until you find a good spot.

I've found post-hrt orgasms to be considerably different from pre-hrt.

Pre-hrt, physical stimulation was often enough.

Post-hrt I actually have to "think" myself to orgasm. Think thoughts so sexy that they arouse me to the point of needing to climax.

Stimulation is different, too. Rubbing worked before, now it's more teasing - a serious of gentle touches that gets me increasingly more aroused.

I hope this helps. Let us know when you get that first O!