Nice work Mary,
I hope your event is well attended.
I was Recently included into a an online woman's support group for our Summer work crew that is quite progressive and has a pretty even ratio of men to women. I and most of the other girls didn't feel like it should be any hoohoo that I'd be included and therefore I was surprised to hear that there had been some back channel talk about that I might make some women feel uncomfortable talking about "some topics".

I later learned a few of my friends went to bat for me and pointed out that if back channel gossip was going to be conducted, they didn't feel comfortable discussing anything in front of them, and if they didn't cut it out they would be outed as the bigoted B****es they were. all of this happened without me (or others not involved) learning the names of any of the women involved, neither the heroines or the ->-bleeped-<-s. Now that's solidarity.