.I live in a metro area of 3.5 million with lots of stores. There is also a large population of transgendered individuals. I have yet to find one store that will work with me (in either boy or girl mode). Most of the time, I do attract the attention of a very nervous sales person who approaches and asks "Can I help you?". If I try for a bra, I am politely informed that "It is against store policy to allow men to try on a bra" and then get the "leave now" look. When I jumped up in size, my wife even went with me to help. That didn't work either.
I just order off Amazon. I'm generally a 40DD in most bras. I order a 38DD, a 40D, a 40DD, and a 42D. I keep the one that fits and return the rest. Sport Bras used to be easy. Now, try finding a sports bra in a 40DD for someone 6'1" (186 cm). They are all to short in the arms, don't cover my breasts or are padded. Really, a PADDED 40DD? Are there big ego issues? A 40DD isn't big enough so it has to be padded?
Love the USA but we are silly sometimes...
Frustrated,
Jen