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Started by Gnf, November 23, 2013, 06:29:33 PM

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Gnf

Hi.

I went to these forums because I got a question. So, first, about myself: I'm born as a guy, and I'm mostly fine with my body, though I consider a part of myself (not my entire being) as feminine. So I'm fine with living as a guy, though I have many ways of giving that feminine side some treats and... well, it's a bit like a pet I don't want to show anyone but my closest friends, but that I personally care for and cherish. Or like some rare beautiful plant I care for. Something I like and value but only my closest friends now. And all in all that works pretty well. There are lots of stories in my life (I'm in my early 30s), when I wondered whether I am transsexual and went to support groups and all kinds of other ups and downs. But now I am pretty much settled what with being fine with my male body (luckily it's somewhat androgynous in a number of ways) and so on.

And so my question is: is there a specific term for people who feel like that? Who are mostly fine with their born gender, but refuse to fulfill traditional gender roles, and consider parts of themselves to have another gender?

Thanks for any reply, and I hope you feel fine and have a nice day. :)
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Jamie D

Hello, Gnf, let me be the first to greet you.

As far as your questions go, under the transgender umbrella, we have quite a few members who identify as "non-binary."  That is to say, neither full male, or fully female, or in some cases, genderless.

Go check out the Androgyne Talk board.
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JLT1

HI,

Welcome.

J is correct, check out the board he noted.  C'mon in and wonder around.  Ask questions.

Hugs,

Jen
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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Cindy

Hi Gnf
welcome to Susans! We have people come to visit us from all over the world, expressing different points of view, and you are likely to find someone to help you along your way :) Here are some important links and things to ponder as you begin your journey here.


There is a very wide spectrum of gender dysphoria feelings. There are no right ones and no wrong ones.

We are what we are, human beings!
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Ms. OBrien CVT

Hi Gnf, :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 8605 members. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member.


Janet  )O(

  
It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
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Devlyn

Hi Gnf, welcome to Susan's Place! I live near Boston. Get busy posting and I'll see you around the site, hugs, Devlyn
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