i know i like them guys

Quote from: HelloKitty on December 01, 2013, 09:30:01 PM
I am indeedy. 35 I be.
And yupperz that is 100% me in my profile pic, but without a wig as I used to wear.
Just got my hair chemically straightened and am growing it out.

Nya, Kitty! I'm 35 too!


I think I put it in the happy thread, but I had a bit of a (tipsy) revelation. I'm a prepubescent girl (really... without all the baggage that label carries). I see guys like they would... something interesting, something I can't understand... but mostly "no boys allowed."

I just cannot know until I know.

Grats Kitty, I thought you were like 10 years younger. xD

I have only had sex, as a man, with women.

Every sexual fantasy I have ever had has been about having sex, as a woman, with men ... and not just sex, but the whole idea of being a man's female partner.

So when this process is over, I know what I'd like to be. But whether anyone will take me is another matter!

Women for me please. 
I don't see me fancying a hetro cis guy. Some of them can be hot, for sure - but that doesn't really turn me on. Maybe male anatomy reminds me too much of what I don't want to be.

It's weird, cuz like from what I've noticed, for me, my sexuality never changed on or off HRT or when I appear female vs when I appear male; I am 100% into guys, either way. BUT, the dynamics are different as a boy vs girl, I noticed.

As a boy there's a lot of...I guess you could say roles are important, and I prefer to be very submissive and like the guy to control me and all that, and there's just a lot of complex dynamics as a boy that extendc beyond just my attraction to a guy. My role in sex and such as a boy is pretty much as important as my attraction to my partner.

Then as a girl, it's like more focused on just my attraction to him, and like my role in it is totally irrelevant. I'm not thinking about me or what I want him to do to me, I'm thinking about him and being with him for him, not any kind of role or anything, although this is a little less intense and exciting than my sexuality as a boy, because I can admit that as male - and as a person that is attracted to males - im sexually attached to my own body, which I'm not as female taking away some of the intensity.

Soo, I think sexuality is complicated, but I dunno if orientation changes so much as dynamics change.

Quote from: Ashey on December 02, 2013, 12:51:37 AM
Grats Kitty, I thought you were like 10 years younger. xD

I can only hope you'd seen my picture!

They say being trans takes off 10 years... but I thought that was only after HRT

to men, definitely, but I am an "honest" woman and I really do not want to
ask for courtesy in a man, I am too much masculine, for now... not only because
of the genitals.

So for now I relate to men only in a virtual sense, mail, chat, phone calls.

My voice passes, so it is not a problem. When they want to date me I postpone,
I say that I am not ready.

I am prepared to some years of celibacy until SRS, I would want to be passable enough
and not to tell them my trans status.

Anyway, I will be over 45, I suppose, so a man would not want to date me for kids,
even a GG will be sterile, or almost sterile, at that age.

Quote from: HelloKitty on December 01, 2013, 09:30:01 PM
I am indeedy. 35 I be.
And yupperz that is 100% me in my profile pic, but without a wig as I used to wear.
Just got my hair chemically straightened and am growing it out.

...and you look great! And frankly, about 25.

I've only been with females although have had some curiosity for some guys, but I also have a stigma about guys due to a few attempted rapes

Thinking about it, I guess I was sexually active from my early teens up until my mid 30's

Now in my 50's I rarely ever feel much sexual interest for anyone

It would be nice to meet someone that could bring a spark, but I'm not going to hold my breath on that idea

Quote from: kabit on December 02, 2013, 05:25:18 AM
I can only hope you'd seen my picture!

They say being trans takes off 10 years... but I thought that was only after HRT

Yeah the hrt has barely done anything until October this year, it is starting to kick in now that my levels are going into the female range now. I can feel the difference.

Sorry for being lazy for not quoting all, but thanks everyone for your kind words about my appearance. Y'all are too sweet 🙂

I like to say I was straight before and straight after. Attracted to different people, sure... 🙂

I'm autogynephilic, sexualy attracted to the idea of feminization.

I'm pansexual, but mostly interested in other transgender females.

Well this topic has certainly been educational so far! It's honestly really interesting to see all these different perspectives coming out

So me personally?  My vote went to Gynosexual (awesome word by the way! 😉 ), so that puts me in the lesbian bin.

I just *LOVE* the female body and mind, cis or trans*: genitalia is - to be honest - pretty irrelevant to me (I find both equally attractive hehe! 😛 ).  In contrast, the male body and mind does absolutely nothing for me.  I find males bland and boring - I always see them as being "in the background" and almost like they're in monochrome.  Females on the other hand to me are in the foreground, vibrant and full of colour and sparkle.  Nothing makes my heart melt quite like the girls do! <333

Seeing as a few have mentioned dominance in a relationship: I love the idea of being *slightly* submissive.  It's always irked me that - in my male life - I was *ALWAYS EXPECTED* (without exception) to be the dominant one.  "Ugh so er, hay there - when exactly do I get to lay back and loose myself in all this too?"  Don't get me wrong - I *LOVE* giving.  It'd just be nice to be the one being pinned down and having *MY* head sent into full whirlwind mode once in a while! *blushes at such a thought*

I have to admit - my fantasy's as of late have been turning heavily towards trans* girls.  I'm fairly sure it's simply a case of having opened the floodgates after denying such attraction for so long, and once my brain has had some fun exploring this new territory I'll almost certainly end up attracted to cis and trans* girls in equal measure.  It does kinda raise the question though: If two men are attracted to each other, they're gay.  If two women are attracted to each other, they're lesbian.  So what is it when two trans* girls get together?  Personally I call it lesbian, because what matters in my opinion is what you currently are in mind, not what you used to be in body.

Wow...  I clearly needed to get all that off my chest! <333

Quote from: Starblaiz on December 02, 2013, 03:12:39 PM
Well this topic has certainly been educational so far! It's honestly really interesting to see all these different perspectives coming out

So me personally?  My vote went to Gynosexual (awesome word by the way! 😉 ), so that puts me in the lesbian bin.

I just *LOVE* the female body and mind, cis or trans*: genitalia is - to be honest - pretty irrelevant to me (I find both equally attractive hehe! 😛 ).  In contrast, the male body and mind does absolutely nothing for me.  I find males bland and boring - I always see them as being "in the background" and almost like they're in monochrome.  Females on the other hand to me are in the foreground, vibrant and full of colour and sparkle.  Nothing makes my heart melt quite like the girls do! <333

Seeing as a few have mentioned dominance in a relationship: I love the idea of being *slightly* submissive.  It's always irked me that - in my male life - I was *ALWAYS EXPECTED* (without exception) to be the dominant one.  "Ugh so er, hay there - when exactly do I get to lay back and loose myself in all this too?"  Don't get me wrong - I *LOVE* giving.  It'd just be nice to be the one being pinned down and having *MY* head sent into full whirlwind mode once in a while! *blushes at such a thought*

I have to admit - my fantasy's as of late have been turning heavily towards trans* girls.  I'm fairly sure it's simply a case of having opened the floodgates after denying such attraction for so long, and once my brain has had some fun exploring this new territory I'll almost certainly end up attracted to cis and trans* girls in equal measure.  It does kinda raise the question though: If two men are attracted to each other, they're gay.  If two women are attracted to each other, they're lesbian.  So what is it when two trans* girls get together?  Personally I call it lesbian, because what matters in my opinion is what you currently are in mind, not what you used to be in body.

Wow...  I clearly needed to get all that off my chest! <333

I prefer to lump cis and transwomen into one catagory of just women.  I've yet to try dating a men to get a clue on that, but they look real fun in bed, esp if hes dominant . Gay women though, are the ones i always fall in love with. I dated a girl once who identified as 100% gay, and thought she was trying something new:).  She treated me like a princess without even noticing:))).  Turned out though, she wanted a real mans man to try out though, so she went back to just dating girls after a year. I really hope i can find a girl like that again, esp if things dont work out with men, my options get super cut back.

Jebus, HelloKitty is adorable

Anywho, as many others have said, I'm really not attracted to men, but at the same time I'm open minded and more interested in the person inside. I don't think I'd actively look for a relationship like that in a man, but who knows what could happen? 😀

I just don't know. I think I might be bi. It has been very hard dealing with possible attraction to men. But I have to be the girl in the equation. But what I am curious about is how this turns out say 10 years from now. Most of the people on this board are very much in transition.

I think I might be 50/50 on men and women. xD I realize since the perspective-switch to female-mode, it wasn't just my libido that reset but also my preferences. Attraction to men (which had already been there) was the first to come up, but now..? I think I've rediscovered what my 'types' are for women. 🙂 Which is pretty weird. I used to be very focused on breasts (especially huge breasts) but I'd say that was at least 60% driven by testosterone and my male bits. Now I look at women differently, and find different things attractive about them.

Bi curious and marked as Bi. I have no history of sleeping with men, but could/would if the situation was very, very right.