I find that padded bras give me enough of an appearance of breasts. I even feel that I really have breasts sometimes. So I wear my bras all the time except when I am in the shower. I haven't managed to start hormones, and I am sure my Medicare insurance will not pay for surgery. I am just female all the time in appearance, because I am a lady, no matter what anyone else thinks. Being a senior citizen, has made me more and more determined to be my true self. Others with whom I live want me to accept them for themselves, I have the same right to expect the same for myself.