Mingling with my face I've altered major things. I've shifted from an UNPASSABLE beautiful 'trans' to a somehow PASSABLE ordinary-looking 'girl'. I'm in a confused state. I dunno whether to be happy or what anymore.

Before I'd hear guys saying 'Hey she's beautiful but it's a man', now I dont receive neither compliments/insults anymore. I'm like off from everyone's radar. I'm glad no one bullies me anymore but I don't receive compliments neither anymore. I just look like a plain ordinary girl.

I can revert back but I am not sure.

If you had to choose to be between an UNPASSABLE bombshell trans or to be a passable ordinary/plain or ugly girl, which would you choose honestly?

I want to be a plain ordinary woman being seen as a beautiful but oh she's a man is just being seen as man. I'm a woman so I just want to be seen as only a woman.

Yeah i wanna be the girl next door tbh.  The kind that looks great, but isnt a supermodel.  I certainly dont want to be pegged as trans all the time.

Yep, plain Jane for me thanks.

I just want to be seen as a woman, no more no less. 

Seriously, you even have to ask this question? 

Quote from: Heather on December 14, 2013, 12:37:26 PM
I want to be a plain ordinary woman being seen as a beautiful but oh she's a man is just being seen as man. I'm a woman so I just want to be seen as only a woman.              Yea, just the girl  who graduated from that all woman's college before starting her own business and raising a family.

I prefer to be what I am, just another woman.

I have no intention of ever going stealth, so I'll say beautiful and trans

I like being a normal athletic girl that guys find attractive. Makes it easy to attract guys
I vote happy some normal girl 

You can't be a bombshell if you're unpassable... It's like mutually exclusive. Just sayin'

Quote from: Seyranna on December 14, 2013, 02:25:47 PM
You can't be a bombshell if you're unpassable... It's like mutually exclusive. Just sayin'

I was waiting exactly for this comment to come up. Not necesarily. There girls who's face are pretty but still something VERY subtle that gets them clocked like a mildly prominent brow ridge and such other stuffs. And Not to mention a manly voice & prominent adams apple.

Below she's pretty but look her jaws & overall

Uhhhh... no one would clock her except a trans chick who knew exactly what to look for. Adam's Apple and voice are changeable with effort and money.

For the answer, I'm a normal chick who is regularly regarded as 'pretty' or 'beautiful' so, I can't say but I assume that if I was faced with the options that you put up for us there, I'd go with normal girl. I can't imagine the mindset of anyone who would want to be a 'bombshell ->-bleeped-<-' (which is a horrible word, btw.)

I'll take attractive and passable, kthx.

Ordinary woman for me.. Hey, why change what works?

Quote from: Evolving Beauty on December 14, 2013, 02:54:09 PM

I think you might be looking too hard. Is this woman trans? If so, would never pick her as such from that pic alone. Most people won't be scrutinising that hard, believe me. You'd be surprised how many people take everyone and everything at face value and look no deeper than that. Trans people tend to be our own worst critics.

I find the basic premise of the question deeply misogynist and transphobic.

I'd rather be a passable, average girl-next-door who can blend in versus some bombshell who sticks oit.  I've never been the attention-seeking type.

well since i am spending every waken moment and dime to just be seen as the woman who lives inside this shell, i would venture say that just being me would be wonderful, an older woman with a heart and soul.
jerri

I'd rather be thin and several dress sizes smaller.

At my age, the last thing of worth to me, is the ability to make a man horny. So I couldn't care less if I was decidedly plain, I just wish I could shop in the same stores as the thin ones.

You learn eventually, EVERY woman loses her 'drop dead gorgeous' the closer she gets to just dropping dead.