I've already posted some, but decided I probably ought to do an intro post too.
When I told my family a couple of years ago that I thought I might be a guy, nobody was surprised. I mean, as a child all my Halloween costumes were male (Charlie Chaplin, Dracula, etc). In second grade I tried to get everyone to adopt the masculine version of my birth name, because I wanted so badly to be a boy. I've only worn makeup as an adult a few times, and didn't even wear any at my own wedding. I've always tended towards men's clothes. You get the idea. In college I was writing papers about trans issues. How I didn't put all these things together until I was 35 is, in hindsight, quite weird.
But I am quite comfortable with myself now, for the most part, although I do struggle with the whole label thing. I look pretty butch, but I don't particularly act like it, so I might be genderqueer. Not sure. I prefer "he" as a pronoun, though.
My wife and I live near Orlando, Florida, USA. I don't want to go on T because I'm okay with my body except for the sexual bits. I want top surgery as soon as I can afford it. Haven't decided about bottom surgery yet, though.
Nice to meet you all!
