Kaylee,
Congratulation on getting a new and nice job. Yes. I think software developing companies are nice places for transgender.
About 20 years ago, I also worked there. The problem at that time was that the programming position was very unstable, despite of high salary. Many young people came and left. It was sensitive to economy and also the success of software products, which mostly are likely to fail.
Now I teach at a very conservative university. The position is very stable, and the salary level is not so much bad. At first, other faculty members worried about me, because they already knew I sometimes wear skirt. But, nowadays, they praise my fashion and beauty, for the heck of it. Whatever I am, my performance as a professor is more far more important in people's acceptance.
Again, good luck and enjoy your new life.
If ever be in Seoul, you can meet me, and I may guide you.
barbie~~