Hi everyone, I'm Vera. I'm a cis woman, happily married to my MTF spouse for almost 13 years. We have a 4 year old daughter.
I've known about her being trans for most of our marriage, but she's still not out to anyone else. I think I'm actually more ready for that than she is! I just want her to be happy. Anyhow, I thought I'd like to spend some time chatting with other SO's, because more and more, I realize there's this huge part of my life I never get to talk about with anyone else. Nice to meet all of you!

Hi Vera! Nice to meet you. I applaud the support you are showing for your loved one. What a world we could have if everyone had this healthy respect for each other. You are already high on my list for this. Hope to get to know you better in the postings. BIG HUG! 

Hi Vera 

Welcome to Susan's    Glad to have you here, jump on in the fun

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V M

Hi there Vera.

Welcome to normality.

It is so wonderfully nice to see a significant other join us and help themselves and their partner.
I'm pretty sure you will find most everything you need and want here.

I hope both of you have an awesome 2014.  hugs   

Hi Vera,

Welcome to our little family. Over 9149 members. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another SO.


Janet  )O(

Hi Vera,

You are an amazing spouse. Your wife is lucky to have you, I hope she knows it. 

Welcome to the family. Come on in and relax. Ask many questions, read many posts, I hope you enjoy your stay.

Hi Vera, Welcome to Susan's. I hope you are not allergic to KATs.

Nice to meet you! This is a great community, and many of us are or were married, and can share thoughts on a lot of topics. Ask away! In turn, please share thoughts on topics of interest you see. Of all the places I have been online, Susan's is one of the most non-threatening and welcoming. Glad you are here!

Toni

Thanks for the warm welcome!

Hi Vera, nice to meet you.  Always nice to see caring and accepting significant others here.   I'm still  fairly new here, but no one has bitten yet :p   Anyways, welcome and make yourself at home.  Help yourself to tea and cookies.