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Started by Jennygirl, November 16, 2013, 06:53:03 PM

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Monaluv

Jenny, I went to Dr Mayer in May and let me tell you this man knows his stuff... I got rhinoplasty,hairline lowering and orbital bone countering to my brow bone and let me tell you the results are amazing I love what he did for me and how upfront and honest he is also.. Good luck with your surgery you are in good hands...!! ;)
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Jennygirl

That's great to hear, Mona :) Thanks for sharing and welcome to Susan's!

My only worry has been what a few others have mentioned here- that the brow bone contouring might not make enough of a difference because he only uses the burring technique (type 1). I have a few questions to ask you about the details of your brow shave if you don't mind?

I am sending you a private message with the questions and my email address (since you probably can't reply to PM's yet being a newly registered member). Overall I'm just really glad to hear that you are so happy with your results!
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Jennygirl

8 days away. So much nervous excitement building.

I've done my blood work, but I still have to get the lateral skull xray...

Everyone cross their fingers that I have a super thick frontal sinus wall! I want that brow bossing gone as much as possible. I'm not counting on it though and I'm admittedly still a bit worried that he won't be able to get that much of the central projection away.

Either way, getting rid of the two humps over the top of my brows will probably be enough to make me happy with the results. Both Mona here and MaidofOrleans have me confident that I'm going to love it.

I noticed the other day that my forehead is basically vertical, which is apparently a very feminine cranial trait. So that is reassuring at the very least...

8 days I'm freakin' out! :D (in a good way)
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sarahb

I can't wait to see the results. Either way, you're going to look beautiful, as you already do now. Keep us updated on your progress and how you're doing.

I noticed that your ticker changed too. At first I thought your date may have been moved for surgery, since before it was kind of tied to Rowan visiting for your surgery, no? Either way, good luck with everything!
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Shantel

Quote from: Jennygirl on December 30, 2013, 03:04:37 PM

8 days I'm freakin' out! :D (in a good way)

No freakin Boo-Boo, you'll do fine!
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JLT1

Quote from: Jennygirl on December 30, 2013, 03:04:37 PM
8 days I'm freakin' out! :D (in a good way)

Jenny,

You look great already.  I can't wait to see your after shots.

I'll keep my fingers crossed!

Hugs,

Jen
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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Jennygirl

Ugh, well I'm 6 days away and I just got a stuffy nose this evening... a lot of my friends have been battling colds recently and I'm a little freaked that I may have caught whatever bug is going around.

Anyone else have experience with having a common cold before surgery? I am worried that Dr. Mayer is going to want to postpone me.

Wish me luck that it's just some stupid 24 hour thing!
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Jamie D

Quote from: Jennygirl on January 03, 2014, 01:16:46 AM
Ugh, well I'm 6 days away and I just got a stuffy nose this evening... a lot of my friends have been battling colds recently and I'm a little freaked that I may have caught whatever bug is going around.

Anyone else have experience with having a common cold before surgery? I am worried that Dr. Mayer is going to want to postpone me.

Wish me luck that it's just some stupid 24 hour thing!

Keep it all open and draining!

I wish you the best of luck.  Jenny, what I admire so much about you is your willingness to reach out to others, to consider their experiences and observations, and to share your own.

Just watching you and some of the other gals here have helped me focus on the things I can do to mentally and emotionally further my own growth and understanding.

It's sort of funny.  I am a generation older than you and your contemporaries onsite, yet I am the student here, learning from the masters.  I thank you.  I thank you all.  :)
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Jennygirl

Quote from: Jamie D on January 03, 2014, 02:05:17 AM
Keep it all open and draining!

I wish you the best of luck.  Jenny, what I admire so much about you is your willingness to reach out to others, to consider their experiences and observations, and to share your own.

Just watching you and some of the other gals here have helped me focus on the things I can do to mentally and emotionally further my own growth and understanding.

It's sort of funny.  I am a generation older than you and your contemporaries onsite, yet I am the student here, learning from the masters.  I thank you.  I thank you all.  :)

Jamie, first of all thank you!! Your feedback throughout my entire transition has been a godsend. From the very beginning, you have been nothing but supportive, constructive, and cautionary all at the right moments. That loop of communication that I have received here (especially from you and Shantel but also many others) has helped me in ways I will never be able to repay back. But, hearing this from you tells me that somehow that I am repaying it back- which nearly brings me to tears. From the bottom of my heart and especially directed at you, thank you so much :)

On the topic of my stuffy nose, I had this hunch earlier that maybe if I stopped my nose from becoming stuffed overnight using a nasal spray... then maybe <<just maybe>> I could keep it from "setting up" and spreading to my throat/ears/lungs... possibly decreasing the duration of the cold or even stopping it altogether.

I did some research on nasal spray, and it turns out that the active ingredient in the 12 hour nasal sprays (oxymetazoline) actually has some kind of antiviral effect to it and helps a ton if used right at the onset of a cold. It doesn't completely kill rhinovirus but it does inhibit it and is much more effective than saline treatments.

So, I immediately hopped in my car and took a quick trip to the 24 hour CVS to get some Sinex 12 hour decongestant. Took two sprays in each nostril... Sinuses are OPEN and draining freely! Ahhhh so nice!

In the morning I am heading to get my xray and also doing another blood count test. When I took my first test I was in the process of getting over a nasty chest cold... the test came back and my white blood cell count was off so I am redoing it at the request of Dr. Mayer (they called me today to ask me about it). Hopefully everything comes back in normal ranges this time, and I am good to go!
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Jennygirl

Just got a call from the anesthesiologist and they are waiving the second blood test, putting me on another z-pack just to be "better safe than sorry". She said that a low grade anything or common cold would not postpone the procedure..

So I am breathing a huuuuge sigh of relief!! WHEW!

Time to go get xrays and pick up meds!
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Jamie D

Quote from: Jennygirl on January 03, 2014, 02:28:18 PM
Just got a call from the anesthesiologist and they are waiving the second blood test, putting me on another z-pack just to be "better safe than sorry". She said that a low grade anything or common cold would not postpone the procedure..

So I am breathing a huuuuge sigh of relief!! WHEW!

Time to go get xrays and pick up meds!

The operative word!!

If your result is anywhere near Jenn's (MoO's), you are going to be super pleased.
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Jennygirl

The results are in!



Well I do not know how to read an xray, but to my untrained eye it looks pretty darn thick. I can see the bossing above my orbitals, a few fillings, and the permanent suture in my vocal folds from voice surgery.

This is my untrained prediction of what he will be able to remove using my own judgement, which really means nothing but here it is anyway. Red line is the new profile and the bossing has been brightened to better see it.



I've got my meds and I'm cleared for surgery on Wednesday. Very, very excited!!
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Jill F

OMG, you're going to look amazing!!!   Oooh, me next!  I'll be booking an operating room on the 15th if all goes as planned.

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Jennygirl

Quote from: Jill F on January 03, 2014, 06:06:31 PM
OMG, you're going to look amazing!!!   Oooh, me next!  I'll be booking an operating room on the 15th if all goes as planned.

Thanks Jill!!!

I hope everything works out for you too!
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abbyt89

Oh my gosh Jenny you have to be so excited!

Those x-rays do make it appear that the bone is pretty thick in front of the sinus cavity. If you look at my x-rays you can see that mine was way thinner. I think the technique he is doing is going to be perfect for you!!

So happy for you!

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Jennygirl

Quote from: Me the Girl on January 04, 2014, 05:11:51 AM
It's almost here!

4 days away! More excited with every passing moment!!!

Quote from: abbyt89 on January 04, 2014, 08:03:07 AM
Oh my gosh Jenny you have to be so excited!

Those x-rays do make it appear that the bone is pretty thick in front of the sinus cavity. If you look at my x-rays you can see that mine was way thinner. I think the technique he is doing is going to be perfect for you!!

So happy for you!



I was texting my mom and a few friends "Cross your fingers for a thick frontal sinus wall!!" and I as well had my fingers crossed during the xray... Call me superstitious, but it must've worked ;)

On top of that, last night a trans friend of mine on facebook told me about her Type 1 procedure and sent me before & afters of her profile... Honestly looking at her before/after and my xray I think I can expect even a bit more reduction than I had planned in the last mockup vffs I did (I was trying to keep it conservative and not get my hopes up too high). It was kind of crazy... our pre-op profiles line up exactly.

After all of this, I am now 100% reassured that it's going to be great! It does appear to be pretty darn thick.

And yes, I am a ball of excitement.
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sarahb

From my experience seeing before and after pics, actual FFS is usually a lot more dramatic and feminizing than any VFFS can do. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised with your results.
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Shantel

Quote from: Jennygirl on January 04, 2014, 02:35:07 PM
4 days away! More excited with every passing moment!!!

I was texting my mom and a few friends "Cross your fingers for a thick frontal sinus wall!!" and I as well had my fingers crossed during the xray... Call me superstitious, but it must've worked ;)


Couldn't have been any bone-headiness could it?  ;D :D

You'll do well I'm sure hon, post some pix when your ready, can't wait to see the results!
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Monaluv

Say Hi to Dr Mayer for me girl, you are going to love your results just take care of yourself and have lots of patience... Good luck
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Jennygirl

Quote from: Monaluv on January 06, 2014, 02:09:01 PM
Say Hi to Dr Mayer for me girl, you are going to love your results just take care of yourself and have lots of patience... Good luck

Thanks Mona and I will.

I'm about to head in for my pre-op exam. Less than 48 hours away. Eeeee!!!
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