Just for the record.
No one here is worthless, no one here is 'bad' no one here is to blame for our 'condition', we owe no one a reason not to be ourselves, we are not to blame for other peoples inability to face the truth, we are not to blame for other people not accepting us be they our parents, out partners, our bosses or our ex friends.
You are all wonderful, brave and fantastic people.
Anyone who has an opposite opinion will have their ass kicked by me

Hugs my family
Cindy