I have a stronger sex drive than I had before starting hrt 4 months ago.

Not craving sex so much as wanting to be close with her and connect on a deeper level.

So I crave kissing, cuddling and general making out in a very passionate way.
Well here's the problem...my gf is also a girl like me and she has much less desire to be close like that...like yesh at times but not that often.

I am all over her every chance I get and just crave it!!
Like eating chocolate or yogurt. What do I do? I find her irresistible and have trouble slowing down...although she has already slowed down.

I thought my sex drive would take a nose dive down but it has gotten stronger and is different than before.

Is there something wrong with me? And yes I love her and she loves me and I'm trying to take it easy. But it's sooooooo hard!

(Also my T is basically non existant and my endo said my levels are that of a young pregnant woman)

First, your avatar photo is unbelievable! You better not ever ask if you pass because girlfriend you nail it.

No, you are not abnormal. I found, well, OK, I am still in the euphoric HRT cuddly, sassy, sexy mood as well. Remember you are basically going through puberty and you will find a happy medium soon. At only four months you have not really found level ground yet with your emotions. It will come in time. You are sort of in the honeymoon period. You will be fine, just don't chase her off in the mean time.

As much as I understand that it is of no help for your specific situation I still have to tell you that it's just as it is. You change, your libido will change as well. Many girls experience their sex drive to go down, but others experience an increasing sex drive as you do right now.

That said, many couples - transgendered or not - experience differences in each others sex drive and a difficult but rewarding goal is to find common ground.

What I try to tell but didn't yet: You're experiencing a problem which isn't unique to trans* perople. It's not a nice problem, but you will grow while solving it.

Please receive my best wishes and I'll keep my fingers crossed that you'll find a solution soon!


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Quote from: Jessica Merriman on February 01, 2014, 07:01:53 PM
First, your avatar photo is unbelievable! You better not ever ask if you pass because girlfriend you nail it.

Yeah, exactly. Since I assume myself to be lesbian or bisexual (still not sure), I'd try to get a date if I had the possibility to.

QuoteI am all over her every chance I get and just crave it!!
Like eating chocolate or yogurt. What do I do?

Well I would've kicked you out of the house already. 

When people feel smothered, they pull back. She's probably trying to get you to do the same. We tend to want what we don't have, sooooooooooo.... deprive her a bit.

See how that works?