anyone here feel/know they are a women inside but they don't mind having a penis? I don't mind mine but I feel I would be more happy seen and thought of as a women. I do want breasts and for people to treat me as a lady. As for my male parts I don't mind having it there.

i used to not mind. the problem is that i dont care about sex. but that doesnt stop fluid production. so my testicles get painful and become a hassle and eventually i wake up from a deep sleep to find that they got tired of being in such a state and got rid of the problem. no dream required. i hate it. having male genitals is an infuriatingly gross problem. on the grand scale of things not a big deal but. just disgusting.  i wasnt going to get the pre op testicle removal because of the less tissue available for actual srs thing but. im seriously tired of having them.


edit. i guess i should clarify. i have no sex drive. so i dont take the typically male routes for getting rid of ones sex drive. i just dont care to. and since sex isnt on my mind i dont have wet dreams the way most guys do. i just wake up and its done.

its really. really aggravating.

Before someone swoops in to tell you other wise~

This is normal. I known plenty of girls that didn't want surgery, and were happy with their bodies after years on hormones and looking amazing.

I personally could go either way~ Someday I may have surgery.. But for the moment I'm just still finally gaining the body I want.

To be honest for my I thought going into HRT and even a month or so into, that it don't matter to me what was under my skirt but the further I go the less I think I will feel like a real woman with out it.

Quote from: kg85621 on February 04, 2014, 11:09:38 AM
anyone here feel/know they are a women inside but they don't mind having a penis? I don't mind mine but I feel I would be more happy seen and thought of as a women. I do want breasts and for people to treat me as a lady. As for my male parts I don't mind having it there.

It's not so much that I don't mind it, it's just "there" and I am stuck with it. I had the orchi, that's good enough. It is what it is.

It does give me pleasure. And pleasure is a good thing. I'm not keen on penetrating but my SO is and I do want to please her. I try to ignore it most of the time. It's just some flesh that I have. I hate it when I can't ignore it, ie any erection or bulge when not engaging in foreplay or "the act". I also don't like it fiddled with by my SO - lets just do the deed.

I hope this isn't too graphic. I'm new here. So I aplogise and hope the hammer doesn't come down to heavy on me.

I go back and forth on this question all the time...

If I were to go to sleep tonight and wake up tomorrow morning with a vagina, I'd be happier than words can describe. On the other hand, at the moment I don't think that I hate my penis enough to go through the trauma of surgery. I am keeping an open mind about it. I realize that once HRT starts to take effect my feelings may change.

there was a brief period of time where I thought I wanted surgery, but when I thought about it, it just didn't make sense for me.

it's a pretty invasive surgery, and it costs more money that I ever plan on having saved up...and even if I managed to score that much money, there are plenty of things I could purchase that would bring me more happiness.

Besides, I'm a lesbian.  It saves me money on strap-ons

Hi  ,

I used to like my penis , and in a way I still do today . But I would really like to have SRS if it will be perfectioned . I would like to have a vagina , but from what I heard , many complications could appear , from lack of sensations to completely collapse of the artificial vagina , so for the moment , although I don't use it sexually anymore , it is safe there 

Having a vagina would make me feel more of a woman , but also , having a penis is one masculine trait that is positive in transgirls , giving an edge over common female genitals , at least that is what I am thinking now .

For me I just won't feel whole without SRS. What's down there now repulses me in ways impossible to put into words. Good things happened at my new Doctors yesterday, and it now looks like I'm on the right road toward eventual SRS. The only thing is I want to at least wait until I've been on hrt for a year and a half, or even two years to give the hrt time necessary to achieve the best results. However due to my age I don't want to wait much longer than 2 years. I've a lot of living to catch up on, lol!

I am soon to be 50 . starting hrt and very happily married and have been changing the way me and my wife are enjoying love making . Its lot more mental before ,during and after our big orgasms .Were open minded to my changes in my performance and making adjustment now so were both satisfied .I plan to enjoy all my changes to a great lady and still enjoy my man bits too ( this feeling is shared with small part of girls here but that does not make it wrong .) I very happy with direction were going and enjoy to hear from others like myself !! Troi

I smell a non-conscious non-op here eh... 

I used to not mind them so much, but it really is so uncomfortable can't wear certain clothes and I sit on the jewels constantly when dressed.  With that said on the otherhand I can't imagine the ongoing maintenance required after GRS.

Its not going to make me feel any less than a woman if I leave them. I honestly do not care right now. That may change as I progress and a lot say it will. Right now I have a decent chance that my wife will stay. And if she does that is the reason I will leave them. But if she goes or she actually says she is OK with it, they are gone. But since we have been discussing it she said if she ends up not being to handle it and we just stay best friends she will stay until I have the surgery so her insurance will cover it.

Quote from: kg85621 on February 04, 2014, 11:09:38 AM
anyone here feel/know they are a women inside but they don't mind having a penis? I don't mind mine but I feel I would be more happy seen and thought of as a women. I do want breasts and for people to treat me as a lady. As for my male parts I don't mind having it there.

Yup I don't mind it, having it doesn't make me any less of a woman, just a different type. 

I don't like it, but I got married and she does. 

I figure that if she can tolerate everything else I am doing and the one thing that will still resemble maleness is not anything anyone else is going to ever see anyway, it can stay. 

But I won't like it.  It's like living with a sweater that will forever be turned inside out.

Hum... This is a good question. And I know it depends on who you ask. Some say if you feel like your a woman why would you want to keep your penis? Like I said before I haven't had a lot of time as of yet to learn about all things transsexual but for me I don't get this one? But I am learning there def people out there that don't get srs for one reason or another. I know it confuses a lot of average people as to why a woman would want a penis

Quote from: kg85621 on February 04, 2014, 11:09:38 AM
anyone here feel/know they are a women inside but they don't mind having a penis? I don't mind mine but I feel I would be more happy seen and thought of as a women. I do want breasts and for people to treat me as a lady. As for my male parts I don't mind having it there.

I'm starting to feel the same way.

There was a point in time when SRS meant everything to me. Nowadays, I'm more thinking about breast augmentation and leaving it at that.

For me being female is mental and the surgery scares me. I'm worried about the nausea after surgery more than anything  else. If I could wake up with a vagina that would be ideal. I know i will have the srs - just need to build up the nerve to do it. Dont want to have this buldge between my legs and i believe SRS will complete me as a woman. But each to their own vision of how they will be.

I'm so disconnected with that thing that I kind of forget it's even there, and rarely have I ever been able to make it work when with a special person.

At least Mother Nature was kind enough to at least give me cute real boobs