I used the men's room for the first time yesterday. It was delightfully uneventful.

Gratzes. Never did have an eventful one.

Good for you, man. I've never tried using the men's room before but once I get an STP I will.

congrats, its a great feeling and Mr. Hockey, you can use it even without a stp, I didnt have a stp when I used it, just went into a stall, guys dont really care, they go in, do there thing and go out, no talkin or anything and plus some guys do sit to pee, no one really thinks anything of it, and some guys are "pee shy" and like to use stalls to pee in, personal preference, I do want to try a stp though

Quote from: Ryan55 on February 15, 2014, 04:43:31 PM
congrats, its a great feeling and Mr. Hockey, you can use it even without a stp, I didnt have a stp when I used it, just went into a stall, guys dont really care, they go in, do there thing and go out, no talkin or anything and plus some guys do sit to pee, no one really thinks anything of it, and some guys are "pee shy" and like to use stalls to pee in, personal preference, I do want to try a stp though

I know but I've always been jealous of guys who can stand up to pee. I think using a urinal would be a great feeling to just feel like one of the guys. One day I will use the men's room without an STP since it'll be a while until I can get one, just to see how it is.

I used the stall. No one came in lol. I don't know if I would use one that was more public. I don't really pass well yet.

I pass 100% of the time and I can't use the women's restroom anymore! Very happy. So today I walked into the men's restroom at the Airport with complete confidence used the stall washed and left! I used an stp and I love using the urinals but I feel I'm not as fast at "hooking it up" which has made me very self conscious. I wish there was an stp that could be adhered to the body to limit "adjustment" and speed up the process.

good to hear that you guys are using the men's room.  I am in college and do all the time now with no problems.  The first time I did on campus, was when I needed to go in between classes and asked a security person as I was going in the building and was told on your left.  I headed that way and looked to see that I was heading for the men's, I was dressed in jeans/t-shirt and could be taken as a guy, so I walked in.  There were several guys in there; I went into a stall sat down and peed then really realized where I was.  I pulled up my jeans and went to the sink washed my hands and no one said anything to me.  That first time made me realize how simple and easy it was to use the men's, no chatting or extra time in front of the mirror.  Many on campus know my history so I use the men's in a building where I shouldn't meet anyone I know. I am still pre-t so have to change a tampon in there some months too.

Using the guy's bathroom seems so frightening to me. I still have to use the girl's because I am a tiny little thing with a feminine face. But I just dyed my hair all black (previously black and blonde) and it makes me look more masculine. However, the thought of being in the men's room makes my stomach knot up in nervousness.

Quote from: JasperStatik on February 17, 2014, 11:47:08 AM
Using the guy's bathroom seems so frightening to me. I still have to use the girl's because I am a tiny little thing with a feminine face. But I just dyed my hair all black (previously black and blonde) and it makes me look more masculine. However, the thought of being in the men's room makes my stomach knot up in nervousness.

Same here. I've been told that I pass well but I'm afraid someone will call me out.

Quote from: Mr Hockey on February 17, 2014, 12:05:58 PM
Same here. I've been told that I pass well but I'm afraid someone will call me out.

This is my biggest fear. Like someone will know and yell at me like "Hey, you can't be in here!" or the manager will come and make me leave the store or something.

Quote from: JasperStatik on February 17, 2014, 12:13:31 PM
This is my biggest fear. Like someone will know and yell at me like "Hey, you can't be in here!" or the manager will come and make me leave the store or something.

I've only been in a men's bathroom like once at the beach a couple years ago but only because the women's bathroom was closed. I wasn't out yet at the time.

I'll have to muster up the courage one of these days and just walk in there hoping it'll be incident free. It'll have to be when my mom isn't around though; I'm out to her but I know she wouldn't like me going in there.

I don't believe I have ever had anyone look at me in a strange way when I am in the men's.  The guys are not looking around and do no or very little talking.  I think the only I have heard real talking is when a guys know each other and it's about sports or something like that. My first time happened so fast I didn't have time to get afraid or frighten. 

Is it really that fast? Just in and out?

Guys don't spend anymore time in there than it takes to pee, many don't wash their hands, I do ever time I go.  Guy don't usually go in groups so no chatting or waiting for each other.

I guess you just gotta walk in, go in the stall and get out. It's true that guys don't really talk while they're in the bathroom so I've heard.

Well, thank you for that tip. And that confidence boost. (:

For the first time, find a place where there is not a lot of traffic so you willn't have to deal with someone seeing you. I always go right pass the urinals, would sure like to try to use one someday.  I had a STP but have had poor success with my jean pulled up and using the fly. Don't look around too much in place as that could make someone take a look at you.

I would love to get an STP or at least, make one of my own once I get a packer. I've heard that there is a way to pee standing up with your female parts but it'd be too weird to do in the men's bathroom.

I have a medicine spoon type STP and make it work fine in the spring with no clothes on.  With my jean on peeing through the fly doesn't work very well for me, when I get the end low enough for the pee to flow out I loss the seal at the spoon end and leak all over the place.  I would sure like to use the urinals but I need to get much better and get a STP that looks good too.  Most urinals are close together and have only a small divider between them, but I have seen a few which are like a stall with no door so no one could see what you doing to get adjusted to pee.  That is down the road for me now, I am satisfied that I can use the men's with no problem now.