*** I am only logging on to share my experiences with my first time have sex post op to help other girls who have yet to have such an opportunity and secondly to make myself feel better through writing. It has been a rough few weeks for me (heck a rough life to be honest) and what I did last night really gave me the hit of confidence I needed. I was just recently flat out rejected by a guy when I told him I was post op, and I have been in a depressed mood lately for a variety of reasons (notably issues with my family, my past, and my regret I feel in getting jaw work done on my face).
Now enough with that sad stuff
Yesterday night I was snap chatting a friend whom I met over the internet (on another forum). I said I was trans something like two years ago and he didn't seem to care (long time ago, I know). Anyhow, the snap chats increased in their "explicitness" and after a while we were making arangements for the night
A relatively long drive (god I gotta quench that thirst!) later I was at my friends house. We sat on his couch, chit chatted, had a beer, and then he put his arms around me. He remarked how my hands were very cold (indeed they were) and he warmed them up with his own. This led to a kiss, and that led to a, um, other kiss
Eventually we were in his room and... ill try to keep this safe for work!
What was amazing is that we did it without ANY lubrication at all (just whatever was on the condom). None! I did not think such a thing would be possible! We engaged in plenty of foreplay and the act its self lasted well over an hour! Hot! Eventually I climaxed (with a little help from my right arm
)
By the time all was said an done, I got dressed, had a coffee, gave him a kiss and got back into my car for the drive home.
My point? I am not yet a year post op and I was very self conscious about how I looked and felt down there. According to him I felt just like any other girl hes been with, and I was very tight (Did I mention no lube?!) Like many of us, I feel very self conscious about my looks and I fear rejection and discrimination. It has pushed me to do some rather rash things, some of which I deeply regret. The confidence boost that came from last night however is invaluable! The control I felt over myself is hard to describe with words; he wanted me and was willing to do what it takes to get me!
Too Long Didn't Read: I had post op sex for the first time without lube. It was a good confidence booster. If I did it, than you can too!
