I totally wouldn't mind dating a transgirl.  I'd be less hesitant about a post-op transgirl (just because while I know they aren't into their own junk I still feel like I'd have an issue by comparison of the two and their supposed function thereof [and I'm sure she may too.. to some extent]) but I wouldn't be against attempting to work through my own mental/physical shortcomings for the right lady. 

I've certainly seen a lot of beautiful transgirls out there! 

Quote from: GnomeKid on February 21, 2014, 06:37:23 PM
I totally wouldn't mind dating a transgirl.  I'd be less hesitant about a post-op transgirl (just because while I know they aren't into their own junk I still feel like I'd have an issue by comparison of the two and their supposed function thereof [and I'm sure she may too.. to some extent]) but I wouldn't be against attempting to work through my own mental/physical shortcomings for the right lady. 

I've certainly seen a lot of beautiful transgirls out there!

Funny you'd say that GnomeKid, several years ago an FtM friend and I used to meet at a local trans support group and later go dancing at a gay bar, we had a connection but I am married so we didn't act on it, but I know that under different circumstances it could have been a viable thing.

Quote from: Lana P on January 06, 2014, 04:52:23 PM
Since being trans I have dated briefly a post-op transwomen. I would also be open to dating a transman. I am more into men then I am into women. Also there was a story going around the net of a trans teen couple one m2f the other f2m. They were so cute together.

Would you date someone that was also trans? Have you dated someone who was trans. And what do you think of trans people dating?

Lets discuss

I date other trans people. I think being trans or queerminded in a way you get something in common you can talk about so it more easy to get to know each other.

I identify as pansexual and would definitely be open to dating anyone on the gender spectrum as long as we click.
At worst, it would be an amazing learning experience.

As long as she had the qualities I'm looking for in a partner, I wouldn't mind dating a transwoman.  Because of my dysphoria, I would be more open to dating a post-op woman or a pre-op woman that plans on having SRS in the future than a non-op woman.

I have never dated a trans person before.

I would love to date an FTM guy and have come close a couple of times, but things didn't work out in the end. I end up with hetero men just because there are so many more of them... I should really hang out in more trans-specific environments...

Im more attracted to trans men than cis men

Quote from: amber1964 on January 06, 2014, 07:18:08 PM
Lana P

Let me be clear.

Some kinds of craziness and issues are fine for me. But I dont want to deal with the kind of issues another trans person has. Got enough of that kind of crazy. Thought a trans woman would get that. Not worth the chance to me, so much easier to find a normal guy or at least a guy without gender issues.

PS: Not necessary to speak down to me. Just communicate.

I've dated many cis women, and most of them wound up having some serious issues... My last LTR, and I still love the girl dearly, wound up having borderline personality disorder. That kind of crazy makes "trans crazy" incredibly mild.

In fact. In pretty much all of my relationships, I was the emotionally stable, calm, and collected partner. So, it was with great surprise to me that, after having a number of dates recently with a wonderful MTF, that I wound up being the total nutjob in the pairing. Didn't see that coming at all. Thankfully I realized it was happening, so I could step back and check myself, but sadly I had already scared her off.

It's a shame, too. Of all the people I've ever dated, NO ONE has gotten me... NO ONE has truly understood me... NO ONE, except her.

So. I can partially see where you're coming from. Lord knows no one should have to put up with the kind of crazy bitch I was being. But, to walk away from all trans folks just on due course means walking away from people like the wonderful woman I managed to scare away. She's going to make someone very very happy one day.

I would date anyone that was compatable with me and there was real chemistry between us. I would date a transman or transwoman pre or postop.

The more I think about dating the more I wish I could meet someone else going through transition like me thats female. I just have a feeling that my comfy level would be 10x better vs being with a cis woman at the moment. However not to say a cis woman couldnt make me feel just as comfy. To be honest tho I really have no clue, this is all speculation. I just love women trans, cis, queer. Whatever label idc, in the end its about chemistry as others have said.

If I were single or in an open marriage, I would date welcoming sis or trans male or female. I lean toward males for sexual lust but to females for companionship. With that said there is a gay guy I would absolutely fall for. I have a crush from afar now. I think if two people click then sparks will fly. After the sparks then the difficult parts starts which is relationship building.