@ltl:
The problem is for the most part, that no one changes their mind. News articles are rarely posted for people to discuss and understand they are posted because someone is outraged...In fact most news it seems is just thrown out here to shock or outrage one group or another; rather than be truly informative.
I can't say it doesn't effect me, there isn't any argument that could be made that would make me for example do away with welfare (TANF, SNAP, etc). When I was a child, my family was homeless, and welfare got us off the street, put food in my stomach, and helped my father get a job, and out of that terrible housing project the government put us in. What sort of text on an internet screen could make any sort of impact that would make me change my position on welfare being helpful?
Therein lies the issue, the "sides" rarely have any sort of consensus at all. When one side wants something totally gone, and the other wants it expanded, where is the common ground to build bridges to?
This means when someone takes a middle ground approach such as I did in thread on guns, despite the fact I do support the private ownership of firearms, I was told that me and my ilk were secretly plotting to take them away anyway, just because I wanted some reforms. I am sure I wouldn't satisfy any who wanted total banning of guns either. Of course, I ended up setting that thread to ignore out of sheer frustration of being called essentially a liar, by people who don't know me. I really don't know how to have civil conversation when I say I want one thing and people tell me I am lying and I really want something else.
My point is, I am not so sure any sort of civil conversation is there to be had, because I am not sure there is anything to build a bridge to. I wish I had some sort of solution to this, but I really don't.