Quote from: AlyssaL on March 17, 2014, 09:17:45 AM
Hello Ladies,

So after having a very encouraging talk with my wife, we decided that I need to start going out in public feminized to see if that is something that I truly want. Right now, I (like many of us) am living in fear of being discovered and my wife and I believe that it is this fear that is preventing me from knowing what I really want.

Yesterday I decided to go out and get food for my wife and I while I was still wearing my girl jeans and pink nail polish on both my hands. Since we were both craving different things I ended up going to McDonald's, Tim Horton's, and then Dairy Queen. My first stop was McD's and I had to take a deep breath to get out of the car. I went inside and placed my order, probably speaking faster than I usually do and obviously nervous. No one said anything, was rude, or did anything to make me feel uncomfortable. I then went to Timmies. I had no hesitation this time when I got out of the car and walk inside. This time when I ordered I slowed down and made eye contact with the lady at the counter. I still wasn't my usual self, but I felt more comfortable. Once again, no one said or did anything to make me feel uncomfortable. Although the lady at the counter did stumble a bit with her train of though, which was kinda adorable. By the time I got to DQ I was back to my usual self and I was able to make small talk with the lady behind the counter.

All in all, it was a great experience that just reinforced the idea that our fears make everything seem far worse than it actually is. Of course now this opens a whole new problem... How do I justify not throwing out my guy jeans and stop myself from doing my nails every weekend?

Alyssa

Hey Alyssa, I'm really proud of you! I figure that as long as you're not publicly announcing that you were wearing pink nail polish or girl jeans, no one will take notice of it. I've done it a few times while in guy mode, and nobody's bothered me about it. But I'm sure it was a great experience, and it will only get easier as time goes by and the more that you go out. Lots of luck in the near future! 

Quote from: AlyssaL on March 17, 2014, 09:17:45 AM
Hello Ladies,

So after having a very encouraging talk with my wife, we decided that I need to start going out in public feminized to see if that is something that I truly want. Right now, I (like many of us) am living in fear of being discovered and my wife and I believe that it is this fear that is preventing me from knowing what I really want.

Yesterday I decided to go out and get food for my wife and I while I was still wearing my girl jeans and pink nail polish on both my hands. Since we were both craving different things I ended up going to McDonald's, Tim Horton's, and then Dairy Queen. My first stop was McD's and I had to take a deep breath to get out of the car. I went inside and placed my order, probably speaking faster than I usually do and obviously nervous. No one said anything, was rude, or did anything to make me feel uncomfortable. I then went to Timmies. I had no hesitation this time when I got out of the car and walk inside. This time when I ordered I slowed down and made eye contact with the lady at the counter. I still wasn't my usual self, but I felt more comfortable. Once again, no one said or did anything to make me feel uncomfortable. Although the lady at the counter did stumble a bit with her train of though, which was kinda adorable. By the time I got to DQ I was back to my usual self and I was able to make small talk with the lady behind the counter.

All in all, it was a great experience that just reinforced the idea that our fears make everything seem far worse than it actually is. Of course now this opens a whole new problem... How do I justify not throwing out my guy jeans and stop myself from doing my nails every weekend?

Alyssa

Quote from: AlyssaL on March 17, 2014, 09:17:45 AM
How do I justify not throwing out my guy jeans and stop myself from doing my nails every weekend?