Quote from: mind is quiet now on March 21, 2014, 09:12:51 AM
I think you are way out of line on this . Sorry but it was ment as how hard she walked her path up to this point. And she deserves the fact that she has finish what she has walked. Last i looked this was in the sex ressigment surgery catagory.

I feel if you want to be the police then maybe this is not the job for you.

If you want to slap my hand do it in private and not in public. My 2 and a half cents worth
Isabell

That is your opinion and you are entitled to it, but I disagree. You wrote that you'll have to get surgery to be 100% woman and that is something that most people will react about. Jenny got approved to be a moderator and I bet that she has received some guidelines concerning what is acceptable and what isn't. If you can't accept that people will react about controversial statements you shouldn't be making them in the first place.

Quote from: mind is quiet now on March 21, 2014, 09:12:51 AM
...maybe this is not the job for you.

Well that about made me cry.

Are you happy?

Let's keep track of the fact that this is Jessica's thread, and Jessica who is the object of the initial posts has just met one of her PERSONAL and for her attainable goals.  Any person who has attained their goal, has attained it whether the numbers were large ones or small ones.  My congratulations to Jessica are directed to her and her situation.  I was at her point in time a bit over a year ago, and again, she is the person being talked to and about just now.  No other person really matters here.  Others matter in their space, and for them the goal is different and their top number is also different.  Having a food fight with someone's birthday cake is tacky at best. 

Quote from: Vicky on March 21, 2014, 06:04:11 PM
Let's keep track of the fact that this is Jessica's thread, and Jessica who is the object of the initial posts has just met one of her PERSONAL and for her attainable goals.  Any person who has attained their goal, has attained it whether the numbers were large ones or small ones.  My congratulations to Jessica are directed to her and her situation.  I was at her point in time a bit over a year ago, and again, she is the person being talked to and about just now.  No other person really matters here.  Others matter in their space, and for them the goal is different and their top number is also different.  Having a food fight with someone's birthday cake is tacky at best.

I agree with you Vicky,

My comments was in this forum ment for her only. She has did the time to deserve the fact she is a woman. If anyone has trouble with anything i write it should be done in private and not in a post to bolster there own agenda.

I have fought my fight to the end. I am proud when other do the same. Just i can not stand all the winning anymore.

Isabell

Your response to me really hurt my feelings this morning, a lot I have been a moderator for less than 3 days, and I'm doing the best I can here for the good of all. I hope you can see that

I agree with Vicky, too. Back to Jessica's thread... OR ELSE j/k

Really, this is about Jessica. Let's support her & put aside our differences, girl friends.

Jennygirl. Thank you for your help & time.

Not to derail any further, but I'd like to add that another member reported the post in question and Jennygirl was just trying to keep the peace.

hey girls  I left  Arizona  with a chatherer on  because i guess due to swelling i couldn't pee right ... like only drops would fall when  i would try to pee   having a full bladder ,    ..I was pushing and kind of straining my self also  ....So  they  just put it back on i'll be taking it out in 6 days,   I'm  praying when i take it out again  i wont have issues peeing   ...Dilation are going ok   using  the # 1 clear curved dilator .. i think i have 5 1/2 of depth 


My right labia is more swollen than the right  and my mons area is super swollen 

Did  any of you girls had or know of any one who had to travel with the chatherer  and did yours or their peeing issues resolved? .

I hope that you are doing well from your surgery, Jessica! Let us know of the latest. Was sorry to hear of the urinary issue.

Hugs,
Stephanie

My swelling in the urethral area was not severe enough to keep the catheter in, but I was a real mess down there whenever I took a leak for nearly three weeks, and still spraying up until nearly month 7.  The worst was the first month though.  I have heard of other girls, especially the U.S. ones who went to Thailand having to fly long distances with a catheter in, so while not desirable, not un-known and usually for no longer than a couple of weeks after surgery unless something is really wrong, which I doubt that will happen in your case.   

lets hope so!   

This is kind of a personal question but I was just wondering about the results? I haven't seen many photos of Dr. Meltzer's work but am always reading rave reviews about him.

Are you satisfied with the result? I'm so jealous!
And happy for you of course

Congratulations! I'm a 4 Years Post-Op Meltzer patient.  Message me if you have any questions or issues you would like feedback.  Btw- Make sure you don't rush stage 2 until you are fully healed.  Also, eat a lot of Protein.  I was a vegan at the time and I think it really slowed my healing.  All good now, but it took way longer than expected to heal.  don't rush!  Good Luck!

Quote from: Starla on April 02, 2014, 04:29:31 AM
This is kind of a personal question but I was just wondering about the results? I haven't seen many photos of Dr. Meltzer's work but am always reading rave reviews about him.

Are you satisfied with the result? I'm so jealous!
And happy for you of course

Thank you!  ...well i'm happy its all over and donr  but  its  too soon to make any assessment yet  .. but  swollen and all i think it looks Great  for a first stage and all!  ..i'm just annoyed with having a catheter  to pee. 

I hope i can pee normal or at least somewhat better than the first time around  when I couldn't (due to swelling) ...when i remove it this coming monday   

Well  here is a report on my recovery  I  pee normal now  a bit of spraying here and there but not all the time  there are  times  when its  normal straight stream  and there are others  when it  sprays some   i continue dilating  with #2 dilator  soon to change  to # 3  waiting on nurses response   i still see and have  Swelling  on the mons  area  hoping it goes away  fast   i think i have 5 inches of depth  i dilate with no problem  just hurts a bit when i hit the back of the vagina

today is my 1 month  anniversary since my surg.

oxoxo

Happy Anniversary.  A wonderful report, you are coming along almost like what the doctor ordered!!