(Please feel free to move this if in the wrong area. But listen to my song it is long and slightly out of tune but it is truly sung)
Sometome over 10 years ago I came out to my mother that I was trans . For the next 6 months while I was home I copped it everytime she was in a bad mood (You hate your father so much this is how your going to hurt him. You hate your family so much you want to become a girl).
Present day I'm ready to tell her that yes it is happening I'm still the child you always had BUT this will happen. One slight problem I can't pin her down.
Attempt 1: My father was home so I wasn't allowed round and she wouldn't go out as she didn't want to explain why she was going put by herself
Attempt 2: She was sick
Attempt 3: My brother had a pupil free day (not the sort a conversation I wanted to first have when he is around)
Last week I sent her a text (wasn't answering her phone) saying I have something important to tell her and we need to meet this Thursday so far no reply and she is still not answering her phone.
With my casual clothes by the time I see her I might not have to tell her, easier but unfair. (Considering my first plan on telling her was "mum how many daughters do you have...No thats how many you talk to guess again. Sometimes I think I should wait till I develop more).
Anyway as I said earlier telling her is not the problem getting the opportunity to tell her is where I'm struggling. If anyone else has been in this problem would love to know how you where able to solve it