Hi Calicarly,
Welcome to the forum. You can never do enough research when considering FFS, but at some stage after seeing several surgeons it will be a gut thing, you'll know when you've got the right surgeon.
I saw three surgeons - two in UK (Brian Musgrove and Keith Altman) and Belgium-based surgeon Dr Bart van de Ven in London.
I take it you live in Manchester UK and not Manchester, Tennessee, USA. If you're in the UK, Manchester-based Brian Musgrove would be the convenient choice. But convenience should not be a consideration with FFS. He charged £120 cash for a consultation in 2011.
I saw Mr Musgrove in November 2011, but I knew straight away he was not for me. He also refused to show me photos of any of his work despite the fact I had said I would only book the consultation if I could see before and after photos. He also contradicted himself during the consultation. I was not comfortable with him.
Later that month I saw Mr Altman at his Saturday clinic near Gatwick Airport (operations were done at a Brighton Hospital). Lovely man and a very capable surgeon judging by the work he did on a friend of mine. Unfortunately, he doesn't do soft tissue work but is wiling to recommend another plastic surgeon should you need it.
I knew I would need soft tissue work at some stage and had already decided I wanted the same surgeon to do the lot.
Then I saw Dr Bart. He came across as very caring, he listens to what you say and will then tell you what he proposes to do. As you have already discovered, he has a fantastic website with lots of before and after pics.
Here is what I had done and the prices at 2011/12 in euros:
Frontal bossing reduction, hairline lowering and browlift €3,900
Jaw angle reduction and chin recontouring €3,650
Liplift €800
Rhinoplasty €500
Anesthesia €1,125
Hospital costs (incl one night stay in hospital) €1,700
Total €11,675
I was quoted from between £12,000 and £13,000 by the other two surgeons and that didn't include the rhinoplasty or liplift procedures.
Bear in mind these prices are relevent to 2011/2012. Also, Dr Bart's prices were in euros.
I transitioned in the 1980s and passed 100% female, but age was catching up with me. I was lucky as I only had slight bossing, but even so, two years post ffs op I am still amazed how much difference the brow bossing makes. Even now, I sometimes stroke my brow and love how smooth it feels. The downside is when I shower wash my hair the water goes into my eyes a whole lot easier.
I don't know anything about the way you look, if you pass etc, but take my word for it, if ffs was around when I transitioned I would have had it done in a heartbeat. I now feel so much more confident when the wind blows my hair and have had so many compliments from people, none of whom even know my secret.
I've never looked my age, but I visited a former boss of mine a few weeks ago and was waiting in reception. A woman I used to work with walked past and smiled. On her way back she asked if anyone was looking after me. I said: "Rachael, it's me Caroline."
Her response made my day. "OMG Caroline, you look fantastic, you look so young. God, I can't believe how good you look."
So, make do with an older car. A new car will soon be older, while your ffs will still be making you look feminine and younger.
I'm seeing Dr Bart on April 12 about the soft tissue work I had planned.
I'll also check with him about accommodation, but there is a website
https://www.airbnb.co.uk/ which has plenty of self catering apartments in Antwerp at reasonable prices.
I think you'll need to make 15
genuine posts on here before you can use the PM system. So in the meantime, contact me through this thread.
No rush, I'll hold your hand.
Caroline
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