ok well I went to school wit this guy but I didn't know him. well I added him on facebook last nite and he msged me and we talked and he wanted to hangout last nite but I couldn't so we made plans today. well he picked me up at my house and then we hungout well to make this story short we had sex. well afterwards we drove around Covington and talked and he got us a shake and we shared it. He dropped me off back home after like an hour of driving around and talking. well after he left I txted him and asked him if he thought I was pretty and this is what he said "lol you don't need someone to tell you that ya know" what do u think he meant by that?

He means you shouldn't need to ask, as the answer is obvious..

Quote from: kelly_aus on April 05, 2014, 08:08:34 PM
He means you shouldn't need to ask, as the answer is obvious..

ik, but why shouldn't I need to ask? I mean im feeling a bit self conscious since he said that and its making me think that he didn't think I was pretty and he was just trying to not hurt my feelings.

Hi, Angelique!

I do believe that he was giving you a compliment. That you KNOW that you are pretty.

Also, if that is your picture, you ARE pretty!

Hugs,
Stephanie

Quote from: Angélique LaCava on April 05, 2014, 08:09:42 PM
ik, but why shouldn't I need to ask? I mean im feeling a bit self conscious since he said that and its making me think that he didn't think I was pretty and he was just trying to not hurt my feelings.

It was a fairly standard response for a guy who is probably thinking 'Oh no, another beautiful woman who is needlessly insecure about her looks..'

Quote from: kelly_aus on April 05, 2014, 08:38:26 PM
It was a fairly standard response for a guy who is probably thinking 'Oh no, another beautiful woman who is needlessly insecure about her looks..'

well this is what I msged him on facebook about an 2 hours ago after he said what he said "I mean I just always want guys to  tell me whether or not they think im pretty cause it helps me know whether or not im passing as female. Since im not on hormones im insecure bout my looks and im afraid that I look ugly and masculine. ik its stupid of me to even ask u that, but can u just be honest n tell me what u  thought of my looks." and hes been online since I sent that and he hasn't replied or read my msg.