I feel you,man. I live where it gets unbearably hot and swimming is just about the only thing you can do while staying cool. My advice is to purchase a swim binder with good reviews and not over-exert yourself when engaging in physical activity.

I hear ya man. I haven't gone swimming for oh 10 years or so for that reason. I can understand that you don't like wearing the t-shirt or top. It sucks that it'll be that way till you can get surgery. Personally, I'll probably go ahead and get something so I can swim this year. I miss it too much. I gotta say I'm looking forward to wearing shorts this year - let my manly leg hair flow in the summer breeze haha. The best I can do is wait things out till I can get top surgery - that can't come soon enough. Hang in there bro, it's a tough ride but we're here for ya.

Quote from: Malachite on April 09, 2014, 12:23:13 PM
I know it sucks, but I say that would b a great time to get a summer job so you can start saving for top surgery.  I know you're young, but it would still be a good idea to have yourself a small fund going if you can.  That way, by the time you turn 18, you may have part, if not half of the costs saved up by then.

I'm already going to get a Job but not just because of surgery, But because I need to provide for myself. But. I'm just starting not care about anything anymore, I really wanna give up I'm to depressed.

Quote from: connorism on April 09, 2014, 12:36:14 PM
I feel you,man. I live where it gets unbearably hot and swimming is just about the only thing you can do while staying cool. My advice is to purchase a swim binder with good reviews and not over-exert yourself when engaging in physical activity.

I already said I don't wanna purchase one if it works for you cool but I'm not feeling that tbh.

Quote from: Brandon on April 09, 2014, 01:31:03 PM
I'm already going to get a Job but not just because of surgery, But because I need to provide for myself. But. I'm just starting not care about anything anymore, I really wanna give up I'm to depressed.

That's good!  Let that job be your motivation to continue.

Why do you get so snippy at people who are trying to offer you support and advice?

Quote from: Kyler on April 09, 2014, 01:38:22 PM
Why do you get so snippy at people who are trying to offer you support and advice?

I'm not you just don't understand I have no support so I can't o everything you guys suggest, But again you don't get that, Please don't get on my case either I'm not happy at all and havn't had a good week. Depression and dysphoria is weighing me down.