i do not know what to ask for at my hair stylist to make my face appear more masculine
i think i have a very feminine face, especially my eyes
my eyebrows are naturally pretty thin..ish and they look so girly, they are even naturally arched in that "perfect arch" (ive had many women jealous of my face)
i also do not get acne and my skin is almost "too soft" to be a boy
i use no acne products, no lotions, nothing, im all natural except for my hair color lol

also, what kind of glasses would be best?

I don't know what to suggest for hair styles since I'm not sure what you look like.  I found that my glasses tend to be masculinizing for my face.  They're very narrow and rectangular.  But mostly you want to look out for getting something that really fits your face and doesn't look big on you.  That can make a person's face look more feminine I find.

ill have to take a picture in a few hours
blow drying my hair makes it more straight, naturally it is wavy/curly
and i dont like styling my own hair, i just let it sit how it wants to

I second Evan's suggestion of rectangular frames, though it does depend a lot on face shape. These are what I wear (Guess GU1591) and they work well for me, but I have a pretty round face.

http://www.simplyeyeglasses.com/eyeglasses-sunglasses/frame.php?frid=307280

For the hair, I'm not sure. I don't have wavy hair, but I've found I actually pass better with a slightly longer, shaggy hairdo (think 70s surfer dude). Will try to have a better suggestion when you post your pic.

PS: Evan, you totally rock those frames. Good choice.

my glasses are the hipster kind
theyre light blue
the nurses at the eye center picked them for me since im so blind without glasses i cannot find my own
im not publicly out, so i have girls' glasses
they wouldnt let me buy any men's, they said it was weird, so i gave in and bought "tween" style ..even adult's glasses wouldnt fit well

my hair isnt completely dry but its good enough
my ipod is broken in half, so the lighting and camera is weird

What we did, both my sister and I, is used the eyeglasses.com app and virtually tried frames on. I also used my phone to take pictures of us wearing different frames when we were at the eye doctor so we could actually see what we looked like. I ended up going with contacts instead but it really helped my sister pick her frames out since she is also same as blind without her glasses. She could put her old ones back on and say nay or yay to the frames.

Just a note as well...but....girls have been wearing mens frames (or boys frames since they are smaller) for years and years, so it's hardly weird in most places. My first glasses were boys frames since they were a lot cheaper in fact. Price might be a perfect excuse. I also see a lot of my hipster female students wearing mens frames.

I think less round frames would suits your face better, and in a darker color.

Quote from: Jasper.Beauclair on April 11, 2014, 08:13:12 AM
my hair isnt completely dry but its good enough
my ipod is broken in half, so the lighting and camera is weird

Actually, I don't know what you mean about looking feminine.  You have a lot of male features - and your eyebrows are nowhere near as arched as mine and I pass 100%.

I'd suggest an Emo-style haircut personally - a Justin Bieber-esque thing (I hate him, but meh).  It's a unisex hairstyle anyway, but you have the features to pull it off I reckon. 

As for the glasses - rectangular frames, dark: