A fellow Aspie! How fascinating. I've been diagnosed as severe too, but I do work and did get married. She had to pursue me like a hound, however, and often remarks now that she can see how I am now so she understands why. I just don't pick up on flirting... at all. How I made it in retail was taking positions with minimal interaction or in areas of fascination (electronics, inventory). All supervisory positions, where I mainly had to deal with employees and not customers. I told them when I was being interviewed that I would be most valuable in ways that utilized my abilities to solve problems and learn systems, not with people. Due to my affinity for systems, however, I ended up being the store's go-to for virtually anything about how to make their inventory management system work the most effectively, because for whatever reason normals there didn't get it. Most people found me very off-putting, because I don't like talking, but upper management sent them all to me anyway. Towards the end, they didn't know what to do with me any longer. I had no job title and no department. But I'm sure that had more to do with my trans status leaking than anything...