Quote from: Erik Ezrin on May 08, 2013, 05:46:59 AM
I never did ANY bodybuilding (too lazy, lol. I'm lazy as hell!), but nonetheless want to, because I just hate my low muscle mass (my floppy arms just scream "FEMALE!"), this thread is extremely helpful for total newbies like me, thanks a lot for sharing! 
As someone who's been going hard for the past year and a half, let me give you a tip: lose the fat before building muscle!
And I don't mean that's necessary for your entire body. But MAINLY your arms.
I've built a decent amount of arm muscle up, and can't see ANY of it unless I flex (and even then only my biceps show through, since most of my fat is covering my poor triceps). If your arms are fat, you need to build a SUBSTANTIAL amount of muscle to be able to tell. I've also seen guys at my gym who don't cut, and just build. And their muscles look like inflatable water wings you put on a child in the pool!
To burn my arm fat, I'm currently using Sweet Sweat. I put it underneath my neoprene arm bands, and go out for a bike ride.
A lot of people knock on Sweet Sweat and neoprene bands, because they either don't workout hard enough to know they're working, or don't cut calories to actually lose the fat. But I am proof that it works, as is my friend.
We both lost INCHES from our already small waists in two weeks. She went from 130lbs to 114, and I went from 126 to 120. While also building muscle (which means we burned even more fat than we lost weight in total!) And this weight ONLY dropped from our waists, where we chose to use the Sweet Sweat and neoprene bands!

Normally, if we were just losing, we would have lost quite a bit of boob and butt, too.

My arms are my current project, because they are WAAAAYYYY too fat. Or, at least my upper arms are. Somehow my forearms look skinnier than a dopehead's. (*SIGH* Oh, my anatomy...) I haven't worn them enough yet to see a difference, but let me tell you, I will come on here crying tears of joy once I do! I HATE wearing short sleeves because of my fat arms! >:[ I'm probably going for a ride tomorrow; I feel like I'm running out of time, and summer's basically already here! =__=
BTW, I prefer bike rides because they're fun, easy, and you don't even feel like you're burning all the calories you are. Also, it's a GREAT leg workout! I can ride for HOURS and still want to keep going!
I really need to hit the gym, too, though. Now that I'm having serious thoughts of transitioning, I need to start working out my arms again, rather than my usual butt workouts. I already beat most of the guys at the leg press, I guess it's time I give those muscles a break and focus on my upper body strength again. x3
I don't want to be overly muscular like most of the men here, though. I'm ok with being a little scrawny. But even as a female I've been striving for muscle tone and a general look of fitness, so I want to go just a little bit further than that as a male. And...maybe I should let my butt muscles atrophy just a little...since 40", all ass is pretty big for a 5'4" dude...
EDIT: Oh lawd, you can tell how fat my upper arms are in my picture...And...they're literally twice that size when my arms are down against my body...Motivation to workout!