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when your physical attractiveness changes

Started by latoya rayne, April 26, 2014, 10:22:15 AM

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latoya rayne

I think I'm better looking now than as ''male'' I get hit on a lot despite being in a relationship, and its all by men I would've never thought would be hitting on me, it feels nice though to be acknowledged
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Ms Grace

I'm pretty sure I look better as a woman than as a dude.
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Jill F

Quote from: Ms Grace on April 26, 2014, 06:41:23 PM
I'm pretty sure I look better as a woman than as a dude.

I'd call it a big win, Grace.  I saw the "before" pic.
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Ms Grace

Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Misato

Friend of mine keeps insisting I'm hot since I got all rocker girled up for a rock show last week. I'm a little uncomfortable with that. But, she's trans too, maybe it's a case of optimism projection.

I do think I'm rather pretty. With a great butt. That feels good. Even if it makes me a pig.
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Christine Eryn

In my eyes I'm a TON better looking that I was pre-transition. With HRT and electrolysis, I'm at that "in between" androgynous stage and people stare at me a bunch more too. I'm gonna chalk that up to me being "better looking", as well as them not being able to figure me out.  ;D
"There was a sculptor, and he found this stone, a special stone. He dragged it home and he worked on it for months, until he finally finished. When he was ready he showed it to his friends and they said he had created a great statue. And the sculptor said he hadn't created anything, the statue was always there, he just cleared away the small peices." Rambo III
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~Evelyn~

Quote from: latoya rayne on April 26, 2014, 10:51:46 AM
I agree ladies, I love being a woman and feel much more confident about myself :)

Said like a boss!  ;)
Never fear shadows. They simply mean there's a light shining somewhere nearby.
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Eva Marie

I went from an absolutely average, boring looking guy that no one would ever notice to recently getting hit on in North Hollywood by a random guy outside a restaurant. He had been eying me inside the restaurant while he was waiting for his food to go and he followed me out.

My girl friend (not girlfriend) thinks I'm "hot".

I think that means that I'm more attractive now   :P

I've been on a transitioning level dose of HRT for about 6 months.
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llerret

As of late, more strangers approach me and tell me how beautiful I am. I never had that happen before. Maybe once in a blue moon. Now, it's pretty reoccurring
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jussmoi4nao

I would say about equal, just different. As a guy I was considered very good looking, I guess, to the point I received comments daily. Now I am considered very pretty, and I get compliments when I go out (which I honestly don't do much of these days,unless with a guy) and always have a lot of men to date.

I would say if anything, at my best, I was mildly better looking as a guy,tbh. Unless I put a lot of effort into makeup...then it's more even, but I've been a bit dopey and out of it lately, tbh,  so I've looked more strung out and white trashy. But you have to consider I still have a crap ton of transitioning left, so by the end my girl will probably win.
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~Evelyn~

Quote from: llerret on April 27, 2014, 02:26:25 AM
As of late, more strangers approach me and tell me how beautiful I am. I never had that happen before. Maybe once in a blue moon. Now, it's pretty reoccurring

Yeah! You go girl! ;)
Never fear shadows. They simply mean there's a light shining somewhere nearby.
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Carrie Liz

I look WAY better as a girl.

As a guy, I was fat, half-bald, and the only thing the least bit attractive about me was my personality. But if you ask me, everything about me physically just looked wrong. My hair always looked awful, and all of my body features just looked oddly out of proportion for some reason. I had rather small hands and feet, pretty much no muscles whatsoever, and a very strange build where I stored most of my body fat in my extremities, "man boobs," and back. My girlfriend told me that I looked "cute" back when we were still dating, but she's pretty much the only one who EVER told me that. That single very vague half-compliment was the only one that I ever received from anyone appearance-wise. Aside from that and the usual "you're such a handsome young man" or "you look sharp" comments from family members that every guy receives when they get dressed up in a suit and tie, not a single other person ever complimented me on my appearance.

Post-transition, though, everything just seemed to fall into place. And the sheer amount of compliments I have received has been overwhelming. A couple of my cis friends have told me that they're jealous of my legs, for the first time in my life I've gotten compliments from strangers, (not a lot, but a few at least,) people telling me that I look pretty when I first meet them, and don't even get me started on my trans friends. They seriously eye me over like a piece of meat. :P So yeah. Pretty damned big improvement. I'm still near the bottom of the social ladder compared to the average person IMO, and it's not like any guys stare at me like they do with most cis-girls my age, but the fact that ANYONE has told me that I look good appearance-wise means an improvement over my old self.
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Northern Jane

I never had much self-confidence when I was young (my adopted mother saw to that) and was fairly  effeminate so I didn't attract much good attention. I started HRT at 17, transitioned and had SRS at 24, and was amazed at all the boys falling all over themselves vying for my attention. That did amazing things for my self-confidence!

40 years farther down the road age has been good to me but I don't attract the same amount or level of interest I used to and that has taken some getting used to. I still get referred to as cute or beautiful some times but I miss "the lingering glances" of years ago. ;)
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warlockmaker

I was a really cute guy with a feminine look, now I look even better looking as a guy, but I'm really vain and dont think I am as good looking as a female. maybe its just that I'm between worlds right now and feel insecure.
When we first start our journey the perception and moral values all dramatically change in wonderment. As we evolve further it all becomes normal again but the journey has changed us forever.

SRS January 21st,  2558 (Buddhist calander), 2015
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FrancisAnn

I feel so much better & think I look much better. Both my plastic surgeon & electrolysis lady said that I looked very nice. My electro lady said you look better already than 50% of the natural women I work on so don't worry so much girl friend. So I must be changing some for the better I hope.
mtF, mid 50's, always a girl since childhood, HRT (Spiro, E & Fin.) since 8-13. Hormone levels are t at 12 & estrogen at 186. Face lift & eye lid surgery in 2014. Abdominoplasty/tummy tuck & some facial surgery May, 2015. Life is good for me. Love long nails & handsome men! Hopeful for my GRS & a nice normal depth vagina maybe by late summer. 5' 8", 180 pounds, 14 dress size, size 9.5 shoes. I'm kind of an elegant woman & like everything pink, nice & neet. Love my nails & classic Revlon Red. Moving back to Florida, so excited but so much work moving
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GendrKweer

I think I look way better, but the best effect has been everyone thinking I'm a full decade younger than I am. The hormones, increased attention to detail, skin cream, etc works wonders! :laugh:
Blessings,

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Born: Aug 2, 2012, one of Dr Suporn's grrls.
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Carlita

Quote from: f_Anna_tastic on April 26, 2014, 01:28:01 PM
I used to feel attractive as a guy but now I just feel awkward as I'm in a real androgynous time (coming up to 7 months hrt)  and day to day I don't feel attractive anymore.

If I slap a load of makeup on and a wig I can feel attractive but I'm still not full time and have a long way to go.

When I have finished transition I'm sure I will feel more attractive than I ever did as a guy

I have absolutely no doubt about that. If those before and after pics are anything to go by, you're gonna look great. So stick your chin up and you chest out and keep marching onwards! :)
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latoya rayne

Llerett you're pretty and remind me of rihanna
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llerret

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