I move around a lot but I'm going to be near Nashville in the summer (and much further away but still within occasional driving distance of it next december-may) and I'm thinking of finally seeing a professional therapist instead of my college's free counselors, because there are a number of things I feel like I can't talk to them about, including gender stuff...

I have three goals here, I'm looking for an LGBT*-friendly and -knowledgeable therapist (for obvious reasons) who might be able to test me for ADHD or something similar and might also be able to help me decondition myself from a long-time phobia I've had (which is not gender-related). The last two are more pressing at the moment since I still don't even know where to begin with my gender, but I'm searching within the gender therapist pool first before resorting elsewhere in hopes that I can kill three birds with one stone.