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Started by V M, March 22, 2014, 04:54:41 AM
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Quote from: birkin on May 09, 2014, 11:07:31 AMGRRRR. I keep calling human resources for one of my old jobs and this woman is never able to answer her phone or reply to my messages. I NEED to change my name with them so I can list this job on my job history. What blows is that I have to keep going through customer service since their number isn't listed for HR. I'm starting to get really PO'd because I can't have a huge gap in my job history, but I can't list this as one of my jobs without them having a record of the name change. I'm almost getting to the point where I want to be like, you know what, screw this. I'll list on the job application that I used to be *extremely feminine name that is only ever given to women EVER* and either get my application thrown in the trash before I get a chance, or humiliate myself in front of my new boss. I also woke up at 2:20 am and have not been able to fall asleep since...it's now 10 am. That is probably part of the reason I am so hostile. But I can't sleep because I am awake thinking about how I have no money and want to get this new job so badly because it really is a great fit. Unemployment is making me so depressed, I'm not meant to live this way, it's been 5 months now and I feel like a total loser and failure. Like my life is off track and will never get better.
Quote from: Paula Christine on May 09, 2014, 01:13:39 PMSame here.. With my job, Zoloft, or anything like it is disqualifying for a min of 30days.. Yeah, she may be just fishing for info, I would hope not.. but see if she would just be a friend for a while.. You might be able to ferret out if she's genuine, or searching..I hope you feel better soon. Hugs, Paula btw, your avatar, is that from Sims or some game?
Quote from: Umiko Liliana on May 09, 2014, 04:04:40 PMWonderful my foot lol. Imma end up im the ICU
Quote from: Shana-chan on May 09, 2014, 05:19:17 PMLest you have friends irl, I don't. lol So enjoy the time together, don't worry about things too much.
Quote from: Shantel on May 09, 2014, 12:26:37 PMNo-one is ever truly stealth, we all need to get over that idea because employers and HR people do background checks, there's always going to be something to raise a flag or flags. Best to lay it all out up front along with any accolades from previous employment and if they value you for your capabilities over trans issues then good, if they have an Ewww moment, then you don't want to work for them anyway because they will pull that Ewwww crap on you at some later date and let you go under the guise of some pretense BS. You don't want to work for them anyway, so you may as well put it all out there and prequalify them as a potential employer in the process. It can work both ways.
Quote from: Rainbow Brite on May 09, 2014, 01:11:04 PM*hugs*You will find a job. Right now, you don't have anything to lose by applying. If they find out, so what? As Shan said, you'll know then whether you want to work for them or not. It sucks, I know, But I know that having to choose between outing yourself and applying for a job you know you'll excelle at is really getting to you. You can do this! you're hard working and very smart! But I think you care too much about what strangers think of you. Besides, you can ask HR not to violate your privacy and keep things quiet about your past.
Quote from: Umiko Liliana on May 09, 2014, 05:21:58 PMNot my friends. I was only invite brcuz my sister had an extra ticket. Why she choose me is deyond me lol
Quote from: Edge on May 10, 2014, 12:27:04 AMI have tiny hands and stubby fingers.Also, I have a headache.
Quote from: Umiko Liliana on May 09, 2014, 11:23:49 PMi was told for the umtenth time to calm down today -.- you never tell a girl to calm down! when will people finally get that