Is bigger better anyway? When I visited Washington DC i cruised the art museums and noted that most classical sculptures of nude women featured wineglass shaped breasts.
Is it really larger breasts that make someone a real woman? Are we falling for the playboy bunny cultural model of beauty? How many cisgender women and models do we know that are considered beautiful and relatively petite?
It's vulgar but isn't a handful more than enough? Big or petite we have the same nerve endings and sensation is, well, part of making love. Many very ample women actually find them a curse and something that does not correspond to positive attention. Many want and get a reduction to reduce back strain, fit into regular sizes and stop the stares.
All that being said I too monitor my growth closely and jealously. It is validation to finally have the breasts I always felt were there in the first place. But it is how I feel that is the critical difference and that starts, for all of us, between the ears. Enjoy the differences. Women are more than boobs