Quote from: Shantel on June 04, 2014, 09:21:37 AM
I get you hon!
But yeah it was a particularly nasty event and though my heart is with the trans women I get the feeling that it could have been averted had the heavy set gal not been mouthing off and shaking her fist at the two perpetrators. Although the men may have hurled insults at them initially, she would have been better off not responding rather then shaking her fist and yammering back at them, her body language tells the real story. Even so, the two men deserved to go to jail for assault and the rest of the passengers in that rail car should have been ticketed as accessories to an assault.
Yeah sad truth that, still even if somebody was their to point out that, that kind of behaviour was only making things worse. Could still of diffused the situation. "That can be looked at as provoking the situation" and can work against them. (and the rest of us) still I don't think it that the retaliation is proportioned to the provoke. You know well I wasn't their and that what gets to me the most.
Some times theirs just nothing you can do, but their is always things you can "not do". Not cheering was one of them, not provoking was another. Even if the people on the bus though these people deserved a slap, did they really think they deserved being stripped? Would they allow it to happen to their sister, for what, "being mouthy" "chatting back".
That what gets to me about it.
sighs.. im going to leave this thread alone now.. its one of those situations wear part of the blame can be placed on the victim. And i'm not justifying their treatment, but pointing out that, it might not of happened if as some would say, they kept their mouths shut.

I mean im not saying a person cant stand up for themselves but, sometimes its not what you say, but how you say it.
sorry if I offend anyone