I won't mix words

Want to start therapy this week 22 and don't want to wait but fear impatience will have me overcompensating ..trying to play catch up

Want sex change but i feel need more balanced... reviews of neo-vagina

If ejaculation is a big concern how can I make sure my desire  for this is healthy and not severely misguided

Please no cliches I just need one question answered...is it possible that...

Should I pursue other venues if I am truly happy with my self sometimes...is that enough?

There's a saying there s no such thing as half way crooks I don't want to be chasing a dragon when I really just want peace

Quote from: tt297 on June 08, 2014, 03:35:12 PM
I won't mix words

Want to start therapy this week 22 and don't want to wait but fear impatience will have me overcompensating ..trying to play catch up

Want sex change but i feel need more balanced... reviews of neo-vagina

If ejaculation is a big concern how can I make sure my desire  for this is healthy and not severely misguided

Please no cliches I just need one question answered...is it possible that...

Should I pursue other venues if I am truly happy with my self sometimes...is that enough?

There's a saying there s no such thing as half way crooks I don't want to be chasing a dragon when I really just want peace

It sounds like you are saying you haven't started therapy yet? There is no right or wrong way to be trans*, and a good therapist with experience with gender and trans* concerns should be able to help you sort out where your place of peace is.

Quote from: tt297 on June 08, 2014, 03:35:12 PM
Should I pursue other venues if I am truly happy with my self sometimes...is that enough?

All I can say from my experience is every day a little more happiness faded until I made the decision to go all the way darn the consequences.

Greetings tt297, welcome to Susan's.

Therapy and patience are what I would recommend at the moment. Do you have a name we can call you?

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Thank you so much for answering

Do you have any advice from one human being to another I am very distrustful of paid professials being unbiased


I'm cynical but want to know if you know any one who's gone through srs who still has there sense of humor and is really more in control of their lives you know not takin carp from anyone

Weird phrasing but I'm all for the journey I just want to know if a neo vagina is my destination i couldnt do it halfway and want to be functioning and want to .... i dont know show i wasnt trying to be something other than a woman

Quote from: tt297 on June 08, 2014, 03:55:09 PM
Thank you so much for answering

Do you have any advice from one human being to another I am very distrustful of paid professials being unbiased


I'm cynical but want to know if you know any one who's gone through srs who still has there sense of humor and is really more in control of their lives you know not takin carp from anyone

Weird phrasing but I'm all for the journey I just want to know if a neo vagina is my destination i couldnt do it halfway and want to be functioning and want to .... i dont know show i wasnt trying to be something other than a woman

You'll need to trust your therapist, or therapy will be worthless. Tour therapist will also know you don't trust them.

I'm not post-op, that's not my path. But I am post-transition.. I've still got my sense of humour and no, I don't take crap from any one. I'm a woman, regardless of my genitals - it's just who I am.

There are many post op here. They seem to have a sense of humor and enjoy their lives.

You really should talk to someone to help sort all this out more. What part of the world are you in?

Quote from: LordKAT on June 08, 2014, 04:08:30 PM
There are many post op here. They seem to have a sense of humor and enjoy their lives.

You really should talk to someone to help sort all this out more. What part of the world are you in?

'Murica

Therapist listings can be found on a state by state basis.

Quote from: LordKAT on June 08, 2014, 03:42:57 PM
Greetings tt297, welcome to Susan's.

Therapy and patience are what I would recommend at the moment. Do you have a name we can call you?

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Thanks I already want to tell you guys everything but have to play it cool with the names

You can call me bob for now at least