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My SRS with Dr. Kathy Rumer

Started by suzifrommd, May 07, 2014, 09:10:41 AM

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Jenna Marie

Well, I've only seen the pictures of the one friend who shared with me, and as she *is* a friend, I'm not comfortable analyzing beyond generalities - as I said, it looked good. At least as good as the other top surgeons. :)
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suzifrommd

I had my phone consult today. We spent less than ten minutes on the phone. The purpose was really to make sure I completely understand the preoperative instructions completely and to highlight some that absolutely had to be followed or she wouldn't perform the surgery.

She comes across very patient and empathetic over the phone. She encouraged me to ask questions and answered them completely.

The next step will be for her to give me prescriptions for the pre-op labwork and medication.
Have you read my short story The Eve of Triumph?
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suzifrommd

I had my pre-op physical today. It was very quick - about ten minutes. He did the usual things, nothing more. Because of my age, I also had an EKG (much easier now without chest hair  :)), and a nasal swab looking for MRSA (really nasty bacteria) in my nose. He assured me if it's found, then the surgeon can take precautions and it would NOT call off surgery.

My lab hadn't sent over the results, so there had to be some back and forth phone calls but they got the blood work in the end and it looks fine.

So I passed.

Holy cripes, it looks like this is really going to happen. 16 days and counting...
Have you read my short story The Eve of Triumph?
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AnneB

Hugs Suze, you'll be in my prayers, til well after then..
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Beth Andrea

Very happy for you Suzi!!

Very interested in your experiences with her too...
*hugs*
...I think for most of us it is a futile effort to try and put this genie back in the bottle once she has tasted freedom...

--read in a Tessa James post 1/16/2017
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Hikari

I am very happy for you, and I must admit a little envious. McGinn was who I was mainly interested in due to proximity and the results I have seen. Like you I would prefer not to have to get on a plane, and I could I suppose even take a train to philly (IDK why that appeals to me I have a car). Of course this is all moot until I can get some sort of job that pays much more than mine currently does.

I really hope you have a speedy recovery and I really hope that you don't have to go thru the recovery process alone, I understand from your other thread you have that covered but, still I worry about such things.
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Bestk

Quote from: mind is quiet now on May 09, 2014, 05:19:02 PM
McGinn was doing her surgery residence with Dr Leis when I had my BA done. She was #2 on my short list.

Did not meet Kathy she came I think after McGinn and worked with Dr. Leis.  Any of them would be a great east coast choice.

Izzy

Actually, both Dr. Rumer and Dr. McGinn trained in the same program and graduated the same year. Dr. Rumer was never in practice with Dr. Leis.
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Gina Taylor

Good luck and a speedy recovery!  :)
Gina Marie Taylor  8)
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JLT1

There is another thread here on Susans. https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=134780.0

I don't know.  I keep hearing about surgeries that have gone wrong form virtually every surgeon out there.  I get weirded out everytime I think about it. 

Suzi, I really wish you the best.  Please keep us posted.

Hugs,

Jen
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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suzifrommd

Quote from: JLT1 on June 11, 2014, 12:51:48 AM
There is another thread here on Susans. https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=134780.0

I don't know.  I keep hearing about surgeries that have gone wrong form virtually every surgeon out there.  I get weirded out everytime I think about it. 

Suzi, I really wish you the best.  Please keep us posted.

Hugs,

Jen

Yeah, I watched that thread closely (as you might imagine). I had some private correspondence with the member who had had a lousy experience. She gave me the details of what went wrong. I also talked to a few people IRL who had been to Rumer.

Hopefully, at this point I have a really good idea of her strong and week points.

Thanks for the good wishes, Jen. I intend to keep everyone updated.
Have you read my short story The Eve of Triumph?
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Bestk

Quote from: suzifrommd on June 11, 2014, 05:35:15 AM
Yeah, I watched that thread closely (as you might imagine). I had some private correspondence with the member who had had a lousy experience. She gave me the details of what went wrong. I also talked to a few people IRL who had been to Rumer.

Hopefully, at this point I have a really good idea of her strong and week points.

Thanks for the good wishes, Jen. I intend to keep everyone updated.

Just remember that there are always two sides to every story and that the surgeon cannot publicly refute claims without violating HIPAA laws. I'd contact Dr. Rumer directly about your concerns and let her explain the situation as best she can within HIPAA guidelines.

I know you will be in great hands and wish you a speedy recovery!
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suzifrommd

We arrived in Ardmore at 1PM. We're not supposed to check in until 2, which is annoying because the cleansing regime starts at 12 noon, after which I need to be near a bathroom. I started mine at 1:00, which turned out to be no problem, because the main street in town is only a half block from Dr. Rumer's office, and we sat in a Starbuck's for an hour.

Dr. Rumer's office is an old 3-story building with only 3 spaces in the back for her employees and two spaces in the front for patients who are not staying here. Fortunately the library parking lot across the street has ample spaces for my companion.

We were greeted by Dr. Rumer's receptionist who introduced us to the surgical coordinator (who I talked to a half-dozen times over the phone. The waiting room for the office is off a tiny front hall. The receptionist took us up two flights of stairs, past the private entrance to Dr. Rumer's personal apartment to the recovery center on the 3rd floor. There is a security combo lock to get in, leading to a hallway. On the left are the doors to the three rooms for residents. The first door on the right is a spacious kitchen, but the refrigerator, oven/range, and dishwasher are off-limits. There are plenty of dishes and silverware and a book that gives directions to supermarkets, takeout places, and the local wifi password. The second door on the right is the bathroom (communal) with tub and shower.

After about 45 minutes to unpack, we went back down to the office, where Dr. Rumer was waiting for us. She sat for about ten minutes answering all kinds of questions, and then she examined me (this is the first time). She didn't spend long. Just poked things for about 15 seconds while looking around, before standing up and telling me that everything looks fine and she expects a good result based on what she sees. She gave me a warm hug and told me she'll see me at the hospital tomorrow (I've got to be there at 6AM. Ugh.)

Now, I'm back in the room. It's comfortable – a full size bed and a sofa for my companion to sleep on, flat screen TV, refrigerator/freezer, and a couple tables. There isn't a lot of drawer space, but it seems to be enough.
Have you read my short story The Eve of Triumph?
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mrs izzy

Quote from: suzifrommd on June 18, 2014, 03:51:55 PM
We arrived in Ardmore at 1PM. We're not supposed to check in until 2, which is annoying because the cleansing regime starts at 12 noon, after which I need to be near a bathroom. I started mine at 1:00, which turned out to be no problem, because the main street in town is only a half block from Dr. Rumer's office, and we sat in a Starbuck's for an hour.

Dr. Rumer's office is an old 3-story building with only 3 spaces in the back for her employees and two spaces in the front for patients who are not staying here. Fortunately the library parking lot across the street has ample spaces for my companion.

We were greeted by Dr. Rumer's receptionist who introduced us to the surgical coordinator (who I talked to a half-dozen times over the phone. The waiting room for the office is off a tiny front hall. The receptionist took us up two flights of stairs, past the private entrance to Dr. Rumer's personal apartment to the recovery center on the 3rd floor. There is a security combo lock to get in, leading to a hallway. On the left are the doors to the three rooms for residents. The first door on the right is a spacious kitchen, but the refrigerator, oven/range, and dishwasher are off-limits. There are plenty of dishes and silverware and a book that gives directions to supermarkets, takeout places, and the local wifi password. The second door on the right is the bathroom (communal) with tub and shower.

After about 45 minutes to unpack, we went back down to the office, where Dr. Rumer was waiting for us. She sat for about ten minutes answering all kinds of questions, and then she examined me (this is the first time). She didn't spend long. Just poked things for about 15 seconds while looking around, before standing up and telling me that everything looks fine and she expects a good result based on what she sees. She gave me a warm hug and told me she'll see me at the hospital tomorrow (I've got to be there at 6AM. Ugh.)

Now, I'm back in the room. It's comfortable – a full size bed and a sofa for my companion to sleep on, flat screen TV, refrigerator/freezer, and a couple tables. There isn't a lot of drawer space, but it seems to be enough.

Suzi,
I wish you well tomorrow. Kathy is doing the hard part tomorrow.

I will have you in my thoughts, hugs and speed in recovery.

Hugs
Isabell
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FrancisAnn

My best to you GF. I guess tonight will be a long night for you & I hope you do get some decent sleep. I know you will be relieved when you awake & are told everything went very well & maybe perfect with your surgery.

It's not as serious as GRS however I had a face & neck lift with eye lid surgery a week & a half ago. I was pretty nervous about that GF. When I came to & the doc said everything went very well that was such a relief. I'm taking it easy & healing up now.

I so hope you hear the same type words & that everything goes well.

I look forward to your news when you feel like posting. Sweet dreams GF.

Francis
mtF, mid 50's, always a girl since childhood, HRT (Spiro, E & Fin.) since 8-13. Hormone levels are t at 12 & estrogen at 186. Face lift & eye lid surgery in 2014. Abdominoplasty/tummy tuck & some facial surgery May, 2015. Life is good for me. Love long nails & handsome men! Hopeful for my GRS & a nice normal depth vagina maybe by late summer. 5' 8", 180 pounds, 14 dress size, size 9.5 shoes. I'm kind of an elegant woman & like everything pink, nice & neet. Love my nails & classic Revlon Red. Moving back to Florida, so excited but so much work moving
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Beth Andrea

...I think for most of us it is a futile effort to try and put this genie back in the bottle once she has tasted freedom...

--read in a Tessa James post 1/16/2017
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Embrace

Thanks for sharing so much detail.  I hope everything goes well and wish you a speedy recovery!  :)
embrace
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JLT1

Suzi,

Wishing you well.  Keep us up to date!

Hugs,

Jen
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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Eva Marie

Suzi-

My thoughts are with you girl!  :)

~Eva
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Sydney_NYC

Good luck and have a speedy recovery!!

I met with Dr Kathy Rumer and her husband at the Philly Trans Conference last week and she showed some photos in a session and they were really good. I'm torn between her and Dr Bowers on the west coast. I'm close to Dr Rumer, but Dr Bowers will work with insurance where as Dr Rumer does not.
Sydney





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lorena

Hope everything goes well. Good luck with the surgery and I hope your recovery is quick. Thanks for sharing this especial time in your life with us
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