This guy is complexing to me, all in one day. He stays with me all day, follows me around, and then acts like the "man" with me. Today, for instance, someone was talking about my hat or something (this is an Army issued cap), and he was upset about it for like a good 30 minutes, and told me he wanted to talk back to him or whatever. Then he would get very close to me (he was also very tired so he wasn't very humourous.... but he acted like he really likes me)... He tries his best to stay with me, and it's blantantly obvious that he does. He takes like possession of me sometimes.

I just don't want to come across as gay even though I am, and I know people can see it, and it's helping and ruining my image. I won't explain how on that though, but I see more guys looking at me.

Then he would not act like the man around me, when I was talking about this girl, and he said, "were you showing your masculine arms off", and then he said, "you have a crush", and then he'll say something stupid like "hit me in the balls" or something like that.

Yet, then he calls me "boi" all the time, and in that spelling too, which may indicate something.

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His girlfriend resembles me in "type"; shorter, medium-size, and dark hair.  I think he sees me as the male version of his girlfriend. And it's bothering me. I'm just confuse about everything.

Are you presenting as male or female at the moment? Regardless he sounds like your stock standard weird/intense guy. What is your current relationship to him? Why is he hanging around you?

i'd say run xD he sounds like one of those overly obsessed type of guys i have nightmares about, but i am curious about whats the relationship is as well lol. sounds like he really likes you but is confused to the point its making reality confused

You said you resemble his girlfriend. Is it an ex or current girlfriend?

Masculine men tend to sometimes be very protective to the one they like (even if they don't know they like someone). For example one guy who I have a crush on and who seems to like me (long story) wanted to know if I arrived safetly home after I stayed over (it was mid day and the bus stops right infront of my house, he knows that).

As I also don't know if you are presenting as female or male I can't give definite anwser, but I think that in his eyes you are a guy.

Quote from: Vampire Brianna Terryal Onyx on June 10, 2014, 10:10:01 PM
Sounds like he really likes you but is confused to the point its making reality confused

Agread 1000% (speaking from experience).

Current girlfriend. And I present myself as a guy.

It was painful today, but I think he made it clear to me that we're just friends. He said, "my laptop is coming in today, and I'm going to watch porn", and then I said, "you can't do that, that's against the rules". And he said "No I am not. That's what my girlfriend is there for".

What else.. he said I had a crush on a certain girl so I had to pretend for a minute.

He wants to be with me all the time, and he seems like he likes me a lot... but he has that girlfriend of his. And I think he's just a weird guy now.

I won't pursue him anymore...
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And today I comforted a guy when he was down, and he seem to like me for the brief moment. He seem to forgot he was talking to a man on man conversation, but really open up about his feelings.

I did my research and his girlfriend resembles me (although prettier than the other guy's girlfriend), dark hair and pale skin.

I think that's why I relate to these guys since they haven't had any communication with any females in months, and I happen to break their barrier down. And yet they will pull back.