I'm reading about microaggressions. You know, before I transitioned, there were microaggressions, but they seemed so small and insignificant next to the really big things I was dealing with. Like larger scale incidences of discrimination. Or the fear for my well-being because I "stood out." Or the fact that I was just trying to get on with the transition already.
Now it's like ugh. I blend in but people have a way of finding out, thanks to people who think it's OK to out me without my consent. Hell I even had someone do it after I
explicitly told him I hate when other people out me 
I preferred straight up ignorance because I could call people out on their BS. But microaggressions, it's hard, without looking like you're overreacting. But it's hurtful, and I need to find a way to deal with the emotions they bring up.
