It's not that weird for us to go to a barbershop, even with long hair! Go to one that is run by African Americans or you can learn to cut your own hair. I just learned to buzz my own hair with a wahl, but I sort of want longer hair for braids. If you want braids you can go to a salon and tell them you want a masculine braided style. How long is your hair, and what are you thinking of for shortness/style?