All these stories make me wonder about those surgeons. My surgeon only had me dilate one time a day for an hour each time. I started off at 15 minutes with the first one and did that for a week then 15 minutes each time with 1 and 2...you see the theme here. By the end of the first month I was doing each dilator for 15 minutes each that totaled one hour. I had no complications from surgery and was healed pretty good at the end of 4 weeks. It took my OB/GYN a few attempts to get all the sutures removed though, but thankfully she got the most irritating ones on the first attempt. I did loose about a half inch in the first two months but my surgeon told me that there was a high probability that would probably happen anyway so I was prepared for it. He also told me he can get me to 7+ inches with another procedure later in life if I wanted the small amount of extra depth. I haven't dated in so many years now that I haven't had the desire or see a reason to go back.
Thus, when I hear stories of having to dilate 5 times a day it just seems absolutely absurd to me. Also, during my healing process, every time I urinated I cleaned the whole area with undiluted iodine. I did this several times a day and went through quite a few bottles of iodine. I sucked up all the iodine into a dopper and sprayed it all over my crotch making sure to get everywhere even places it hurt to push the skin aside to get deep "in there." After every dilation I also cleaned out my vagina with an undiluted iodine solution which also helped removed the lubrication I used. After I was done I would pat the area lightly to remove any dripping iodine and then place a stickless, ouchless 4x4 gauze pad (not a pad or pantyliner) over the area and then use silk panties because silk has a much "slicker" surface than any other panty material hence, they're less likely to stick to the wound. After I soaked my crotch in iodine I would apply an antibiotic ointment to various areas twice a day. I wore skirts for the first 4 weeks (and I really dislike skirts) so there would be no pressure on my crotch when I was walking around.
It seemed to work well for me and maybe the same type of routine could benefit someone else.