Too many "ladies in waiting" imagine their Post Op "O" as like their pre-HRT stuff and it is a helluva letdown at first. A post op orgasm is NOTHING like you have experienced before in your life, and hey, you had to learn the guy trick too!! Congratulations London V. Now you have the fun of teaching your spoose of how to put you in orbit. Make it fun for him too!! It does take time, but how time flies when you are having fun.