Hey,
I pulled out my itinerary from my visit ... The three day prior to surgery is a minimum. You might consider adding an extra day or two. I arrived 5 days prior to surgery, and feel like that was a really good amount of time.
That extra time getting over jet lag, spending a few more meals with other patients, time to walk around the area near the hotel. Just time to stand on the pedestrian bridge crossing the street at the clinic, looking out at the horizon. Realizing I am on the other side of the world! I am standing on the edge of a life changing event. I am glad I had that time to center myself
My general schedule
Dec 1: leave home
Dec 3: arrive Bangkok at 2 AM. Checked in to the hotel and then up in time for the breakfast buffet. I did all my pre surgery that day. It was kind of rushed it, it turned out that I had arrived on the Friday before a holiday weekend celebration of the King's Birthday, which is a huge holiday for the Thai people.
Dec 4 and 5: Rest, walk in the vicinity of the hotel, socialize, acclimatize.
Dec 6: pack for hospital, check-in to hospital, pre-surgery prep.
Dec 7: surgery
Dec 31: leave Bangkok
Dec 31: arrive home
That itinerary was exactly 30 days in country, it worked great for me.
I used Kayak to search for flights.
Another thought for you, have you considered or have you gotten Hepatitis B vaccinations?
The vaccination are not required, but they are advised. I would consider them a good investment, although it is a bit pricey (it is a series of three vaccinations, and will probably run at least $250)
My county health department has a Travel Clinic, You pay for an evaluation of your travel plans, and they make a personalized health risk portfolio for you.
Their recommendations:
Watch out for food poisoning, (poor sanitation, etc). I ate all my meals in the hotel prior to surgery. After returning from the hospital I ate at the street restaurant by the clinic.
Wear bug repellant, they suggested some really heavy duty deet, although the chance of malaria is extremely low. I took a bottle of repellant and never wore it.
Do not get bit by a dog or cat, well any animal! Street dogs are really common and they do not have any strict program of rabies vaccinations for dogs like there is in the west. One of the girls did get bit while I was there. She was petting a stray dog and it nipped her hand drawing a touch of blood-- the clinic took her for rabies vaccinations. So this is a valid warning, although it sounds a bit funny in way when you read it in a list.
Hepatitis B Vaccinations: which I decided to get.
I had a wonderful experience in Chonburi, I felt safe and well cared for at all times.
I had an easy recovery while there. Some of the other folks had rougher times, some physically and some emotionally. It will be an experience. Once you embark there is no turning back, your experience will be yours and yours alone.
I would be glad to share more with you, Skype or a phone call would be easier than writing. I am a couple hours time difference if you are interested.
Elaina