Since my last meaningful relationship of 4 and a half years blew up a month ago, prolly a lot of what went wrong being my severe genital dysphoria preventing me from being able to be truly intimate with her, I've decided to not date until after I've had my SRS and I'm healed and completely whole.

Ally

My x left 7 yrs ago this December we were together 6 yrs so 13 yrs since I've been on a date........Jesus I'm so lame.

I had similar views about genital parts, but then realised that SRS (IF I will go that route eventually) is still at least 4-5 years away for financial reasons and I will 40 y.o. then and "like a virgin" and not really knowing much about that kind of social relationships... this felt a bit weird personally to me. If there are other ways around it, so be it!
And dating is that kind of area where You learn by doing and making mistakes. I hate to admit that but having lived among guys for such a long time and now being on the other side of fence... I dont understand them. Sure, they are not that big mystery as they probably are for cis-girls, because I have seen those thought patterns and responses countless times, I can read their body language (but that's just life experience and being observant), but I cant get into their heads, because they are so "stone faced" with very little emotional expression - I can see that they are processing something but I cannot see what the conclusion is. And on top of that, they are shy and awkward .

Never, but if I could get Carrie Liz to go out with me, I would gladly change that practice.

Quote from: LordKAT on July 09, 2014, 02:40:32 AM
Never, but if I could get Carrie Liz to go out with me, I would gladly change that practice.

what girl could refuse your natural look

Quote from: stephaniec on July 09, 2014, 11:37:19 AM
what girl could refuse your natural look

Yay! KITTIES!!!!  o((*^▽^*))o

i see a special friend of mine almost every day, we do lots of things together, however i have had about 50 sexual partners this year if that counts as dateing.. just get out there and meet people, the net is good, like adult friend finder etc
screw being alone, dont wait for it to come to you go out and find it, i split from my long term, partner last year, im currently working on getting a new one(its going ok as well), but you got to put the work in.

If I would have replied to all those peeps who sought only casual sex, I would have a fresh guy every 2-3 days .

Quote from: ♡ Emily ♡ on July 09, 2014, 04:06:05 PM
If I would have replied to all those peeps who sought only casual sex, I would have a fresh guy every 2-3 days .

dont dismiss casual sex, I met a very special freind though casual sex.

Quote from: ♡ Emily ♡ on July 09, 2014, 04:06:05 PM
If I would have replied to all those peeps who sought only casual sex, I would have a fresh guy every 2-3 days .

    Somebody's milkshake brings all the boys to the yard!  Too outdated of a reference?

Ιm curretly dating a girl and I plan to continue dating girls  even if my relationship ends,
people realise I am a boy when they talk to me (well its mostly cause of my voice) but girls find me very attractive so I guess it wouldnt be so bad to take advantage of that,,,of course I would want my partner to  know and respect my trans status nonetheless

you know what, SCREW DATING! xD leave that crap for the birds. as long as i can continue to have my fun, it dont matter to me anymore 

Quote from: jebee on July 09, 2014, 07:08:40 PM
dont dismiss casual sex, I met a very special freind though casual sex.

True and I am not dismissing it entirely. It is just sometimes - especially in online dating, which despite posting pics and whatnot, until You both meet in person - IS anonymous, people clearly overstep their boundaries and stuff which they write and send to You, makes You think that You dont really want to meet them in person (neither in public, nor for Goddess' sake in a private setting). The guy I am interested now most probably will fall into casual setting - too much differences for something more serious to develop, but he is hot and fun enough to be around .