I just got home from my therapist appointment and I am very excited that he thinks my 'informal' goals are very do-able.
First, I need to be out to my wife and immediate family by Sept, 2nd start working on hair removal and grooming skills, 3. continue to lose weight at current pace to be ready to start HRT be Feb/March. He has a couple different endo's that he works with here in Ft Myers, FL and he thinks I am doing Great and that my plan is very realistic. I had a fear that he was going to put the brakes on me. He say's my experiences sound like many others he has heard and that I don't sound "crazy". That was my biggest fear, being told that I was just being crazy. I am very excited!!! I wish I had somebody to talk to. It's probably a good thing my wife is out of town because I would probably just blurt out what was up and I don't want our talk to go that way.

That's great news. Remember that plans change as you change, if it slows down due to obstacles it's not a failure just a new development, likewise it may speed up too if things are going well. All the best!

Thank you Grace, I respect your opinions immensely as I keep an eye out for your posts

It sounds like a realistic plan to me. Personally, I suck at planning and can never stick to them so all the things I done such as coming out to people were done randomly and whenever I felt like it was the time to. Good luck! That's very exciting to hear.

I think you have a great starting plan set out to start.

Just be ready for the wrench to be thrown into those plans.

Not to say there will be any but have always a back up plan in place.

Me i think now that i have finished i was on like on maybe backup plan GG just before GCS. Started at plan A hit Z and started back with AA.

I wish there was a easy way to move forward but you have started on a good footing with having a therapist who seems to know how to help.

May your path you walk be smooth.

Isabell