Hello, so I met this girl at this rubbish cafe where I live, and she's really fun to talk to and I like being around her, I've NEVER had a crush before, or a girlfriend for that matter (throughout high school is get a bunch of rubbish for being who I am, I moved to go to college in the states) and though I've kissed a girl before I've never actually asked a girl out before, any advise, and would asking her on a date to the cafe she works at be a bad call (kidding about that last part!) well help, please?!

Just ask if she's busy Saturday, ask for Saturday because Friday is "I just got done with a week of school and I'm flunking this semester, should I change majors" day for most college kids in the states<--- kidding, well half kidding.
go to dinner, somewhere nice, then to the movies to see something that recently came out.
Don't see something scary on a first date, let her pick but don't agree to see a chick flick unless you like The Fault In Our Stars which btw movie is a terrible Page-To-Screen they left out some of the best parts!

So dinner and cinema, hmm. and TFIOS was a GREAT movie!!! guess I should dress up a bit.

Quote from: JCardiff on July 20, 2014, 09:32:32 PM
So dinner and cinema, hmm. and TFIOS was a GREAT movie!!! guess I should dress up a bit.

I think first dates should be kept short, sweet and fun Long, few hour, first dates when eating a meal can be quite draining. Go to some cool places in your area, be fun, be spontaneous, and good luck!

I have a minor crush on the guy that apparently wrote the book that became that movie. He does youtube videos for mental_floss and at least one other brand and he's adorable.

But yeah. Keep it short to begin with and be yourself. And good luck.

Quote from: Felix on July 21, 2014, 05:36:00 AM
and be yourself

Be your BEST self!