Each day I go through the same ordeal.. Be the man you were born, or the person you've become. I actually have been purging my diplomatically correct male clothes in an attempt to achieve a more feminine permanent position. A lot of things
I have kept are quite androgynous, yet I hate dressing in that manner. I really prefer a skirt and a tank or something with a little breast going on.
I don't feel transition is for me, but I don't like dressing as a man even in the slightest... it's just no fun!

You should dress in the feminine clothes that make you happy, then. You look very pretty in your avatar, by the way.

Thanx Pikachu! And I agree, just hard to juggle with a 14 year old son and a management position,though I do wear acrylic nails all the time...he he he...

Hi Pansy  ...
As I understand it, as you do not use exclusively women's clothing, it upsets you  ...

Well .. this is something that many of us spend at least some time... but the important thing is that we will not let it become a kind of self-denial, where we begin to hate the person who is in the cis source...

Our greatest attribute is just getting over between genres ... and feel a repulsion between them, is cause desequilíbio that hurts us  ...

I've purged almost all of my binary masculine clothes, though not all my clothes from the men's department, by any stretch. I tend to look at them not as androgynous clothes, but instead as feminine clothes that fit my body better. Granted, there are some limitations to what's available, but if the men's department were the only place to buy clothes, I could find quite a few outfits I like to wear, albeit among lots more outfits I wouldn't enjoy wearing at all.

It's human nature regardless of gender, to take the path of least resistance.  For ladies of our nature, our hearts want and NEED to take the path less taken however,  which creates the frustration for a lot of us.

I bounce between the genders mostly privately these days but there is always a little "Dani" with me everywhere I go.  At work, I always were female clothing under my male dress and before leaving for work, I like to rub a little perfumed hand lotion on.  The guys I work with in the office can probably smell it when I get there, but they know me well enough after many years to know that I have always marched to a different drummer. 

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I make it a point to include as many feminine touches to my public life as I can without raising too many questions.  My home however, is a different matter entirely.  My bedroom is very fem as is my bathroom.  And it is not uncommon to find nylons over the shower and slips and nightgowns hanging from the hooks on the doors these days.  If guests come over, I make no attempt to hide those items.  No one asks and I don't volunteer the information.