Hi everyone, my name is Allison, I have recently accepted myself as a trans woman, after many years of slipping in and out of denial. In the past week I have came out to my parents (who immediately accepted me for who I am), as well as scheduled an appointment with a gender therapist. If anyone has any advice that might make my transition go smoother I would be happy to hear it.

Hi Alli, congratulations! so happy for your current progress
Don't be harsh on yourself, set realistic goals and work everyday to achieve them, don't be afraid and good luck!:)

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Grace

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Allison

As you are already off to a great start with supportive parents, an appointment made with a gender therapist and having found Susans you appear to be doing fine.   Read, ask questions, find a support group, take the time to understand, accept and learn to express your identity in the most authentic way possible.

If you transition it really is a transformation.  It takes time but there are many who are either further along the road or at a similar stage.  Never be afraid to ask questions or to seek support.  We are all here for each other and wish you well.

Safe travels

Aisla

Thanks for the replies everyone, I've only been through a few threads so far, but I feel like Susan's will help out alot.

Welcome Allison to Susan's

Allison was on my list of names i was thinking of.

Gender therapist is a great things you are doing for yourself.

I so wish you the best on your path.

The forum is always here to help as needed. So so so much to read here.