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What is your relationship status. Mtf only please

Started by mrs izzy, August 08, 2014, 11:02:21 PM

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My MTF status is

Single and staying that way forever
19 (8.1%)
Divorced and staying that way forever
3 (1.3%)
Dating a Cis Male
11 (4.7%)
Dating a Cis Female
16 (6.8%)
Dating a Mtf
5 (2.1%)
Dating a Ftm
0 (0%)
Married to Cis Male
6 (2.6%)
Married to Cis Female
79 (33.8%)
Married to a Ftm
1 (0.4%)
Married to a Mtf
1 (0.4%)
Single and wish to date a Ftm
4 (1.7%)
Single and wish to date a Mtf
3 (1.3%)
Single and wish to date a Cis Female
14 (6%)
Single and wish to date a Cis Male
22 (9.4%)
Divorced and wish to date a Ftm
0 (0%)
Divorced and wish to date a MTF
3 (1.3%)
Divorced and wish to date a Cis Female
3 (1.3%)
Divorced and wish to date a Cis Male
5 (2.1%)
Other can explain.
39 (16.7%)

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mrs izzy

August 08, 2014, 11:02:21 PM
Ok here is the MTF chance to show where you are in your relationship status.

No pressure just i love demographics and wanting to see where the community is.

You can change you vote at any time if your status changes.

Comments welcome
Mrs. Izzy
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"Those who matter will never judge, this is my given path to walk in life and you have no right to judge"
I used to be grounded but now I can fly.
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Ms Grace

#1
August 08, 2014, 11:21:52 PM
Single for more than 11 years. Never really been much into relationships - I like women, but cis hetro women want to be in a relationship with a cis hetro guy so inevitably it works for neither if us. Maybe once my transition has settled down I'll think about getting into a relationship. I think I'd prefer female but I'm open to changing my mind if I find the right kind of guy. I have to say I find the idea more appealing than I did this time last year.
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Jessica Merriman

#2
August 08, 2014, 11:26:24 PM
I personally would like to meet a cis male who would accept me and love me for who I really am. I suppose this means I will be alone the rest of my life. I knew the cost of transition, but a girl likes to dream.  :(
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Jess42

#3
August 08, 2014, 11:28:37 PM
Single, divorced and other. Wherever true love comes from cis, trans, gay, straight or from the Andromeda Galaxy, I don't care as long as it's true love and not all the fake crap.
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Jess42

#4
August 08, 2014, 11:30:36 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on August 08, 2014, 11:26:24 PM
I personally would like to meet a cis male who would accept me and love me for who I really am. I suppose this means I will be alone the rest of my life. I knew the cost of transition, but a girl likes to dream.  :(

Look for the little green men with a big.... like me Jessica. ;D Hell you'd be a catch for anyone with your attitude.
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Emily.T

#5
August 08, 2014, 11:32:15 PM
I am still technically married but have been separated from her for 14 months and have no plans to find anyone any time soon.
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StevieAK

#6
August 08, 2014, 11:51:09 PM
Happily married to my wife for 28 years as of June. She is a staunch fundamentalist Christian and loves me exactly how i am. I feel so very fortunate and know the odds of our marriage surviving my change with someone with her credentials would be similiar finding a unicorn.  When ppl tell her "you poor thing" she defends me and says how much she loves me.
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Lady_Oracle

#7
August 09, 2014, 12:06:02 AM
Have been single for most of my life until last year. I had my first real relationship but realized I wasn't ready for that yet so we had a mutual break up. Idk I feel ready now again that I'm in a better head space mentally but that's just probably because I'm so lonely these days.
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Jessica Merriman

#8
August 09, 2014, 12:09:57 AM
Quote from: Jess42 on August 08, 2014, 11:30:36 PM
Hell you'd be a catch for anyone with your attitude.
Thanks Jess, but sadly most I have met just can't accept me being trans. I am not trying to be defeatist, just realistic. Must be the Paramedic in me always dealing with real life and how things are out there.  :(
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Jess42

#9
August 09, 2014, 12:34:39 AM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on August 09, 2014, 12:09:57 AM
Thanks Jess, but sadly most I have met just can't accept me being trans. I am not trying to be defeatist, just realistic. Must be the Paramedic in me always dealing with real life and how things are out there.  :(

Oh hell sis, if I was still driving cross country I would stop and pick you up and we would go to LA. Guaran-freakin'-teed we could find a couple of rich good looking guys out there. Maybe even stay out there with them. ;) As long as they are rich who cares about looks? ;D Sorry, I bet I'm gonna' be moderated now huh? ;D
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Jessica Merriman

#10
August 09, 2014, 12:36:11 AM
Quote from: Jess42 on August 09, 2014, 12:34:39 AM
Sorry, I bet I'm gonna' be moderated now huh? ;D
Too tired to see the BAN button right now!  ;D Your safe! *giggles* :)
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Jess42

#11
August 09, 2014, 12:41:30 AM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on August 09, 2014, 12:36:11 AM
Too tired to see the BAN button right now!  ;D Your safe! *giggles* :)

Oh c'mon sis I got The Doors going and half a bottle of Arbor Mist. God I love Jim Morrison. ;)
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Hikari

#12
August 09, 2014, 03:38:14 AM
I don't really want to select, because I am divorced and open to dating women, trans or cis. This poll only allows one option and separates the two.
私は女の子 です！My Blog - Hikari's Transition Log http://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,377.0.html
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suzifrommd

#13
August 09, 2014, 08:26:52 AM
I wish this poll allowed multiple selections. I'd be willing to date someone of either gender, whether cis or trans, though I'm generally more interested in women.
Have you read my short story The Eve of Triumph?
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Myarkstir

#14
August 09, 2014, 08:32:00 AM
You met my mtf wife so  ;D
Sylvia M.
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Athena

#15
August 09, 2014, 08:39:43 AM
Single I have no interest in coitus as a male (not sure about as a female)
Formally known as White Rabbit
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Charley Bea(EmeraldP)

#16
August 09, 2014, 09:23:08 AM
Single and staying that way forever...as I doubt I will ever meet anyone that could love me or put up with me.


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alabamagirl

#17
August 09, 2014, 09:35:03 AM
All my relationships have been with MTFs. I guess that's what happens when you only socialize with other trans people.
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Eevee

#18
August 09, 2014, 09:54:36 AM
I'm divorced, but that happened a while ago before I was out as MtF. I've since preferred dating men, but that's complicated right now. My boyfriend and I split up a year ago, then got back together recently. Since he's gay (bi technically, but leaning heavily to one side on the scale), I kinda warned him then that I was coming out as trans. He decided to go for it anyways... until he figured out that I was serious. So I'm single again and not looking for any relationship. I don't think anyone here would be too willing to date me right now and I don't have the time to deal with that. I'd rather focus on myself.

Eevee
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Jenniferinutah

#19
August 09, 2014, 10:30:52 AM
What a great post! It is truly wonderful to see that many have stayed married after transition. :)
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